Was inspired by a great but ephemeral tweet the other day (user deleted, so presume he does not want me to mention him directly). The basic gist of it though was that he would get girls to follow his profile by saying stuff like: “No college educated girls, community college OK. Also no Italian women …
Had a conversation with a client the other day that reminded me there’s a topic I haven’t much addressed. We’ve talked before about the romance process, and how it’s the man who pursues the woman. And how it’s a woman’s prerogative to put breaks on that process — to create obstacles, to say “not yet.” …
A reader writes in, initially quoting me: “He has not shown up as a man. And escaping into another woman is not going to solve what created his current relationship problems.I know, because I spent the first couple of years with my wife in the same sort of situation.” My question is this, did you …
One of the most common questions I get: What’s the best way to “open” a girl? Should I go direct or indirect? I get the reason for it. Guys are always looking for the “how” when it comes to dating. Which is why I wrote about this choice extensively in a blog post years back. But …
So I’m currently at the cafe, listening to a first date go on next to me. We’re going to talk about it, what I think might come out of it. First observation. 100% this couple met online. They have no mutual contacts, don’t know anybody in common. It’s an interesting date choice… a bit unconventional. …
This topic is based on a reader’s question… which I going to paraphrase. Basically, it had to do with the emails I sent out a few days ago on “Choosing Women.” In it, I talked about the idea of making sure YOU were doing the pursuing of a woman… not her. He wondered how this …
Hey gents – Ever wondered how to tell if an interaction between a guy and a girl is going well? If you’re like most guys, you’ve probably thought success is strongly correlated with time. In other words, the longer you’re in “the set,” the better you’re doing with the girl. After all, a guy who …
I remember a few months back I was running a bootcamp. We were practicing “daytime approaches,” on this occasion, in a grocery store. I wanted my client to go up to a girl and “open” her with specific compliment. I explained exactly how to do it, and, like a diligent student, he saw a cute blond, …
Was talking to a client last about a girl he’s been seeing. He was telling me how they were going on dates, holding hands, kissing. He’d tell her stories, tease her. She’d laugh. All good, right? But, when it came time for sex, she had to stop… because the realization hit her that “I’m still …
WHEN BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION BECOMES A MISTAKE I’ve recently received some flak for a position I’ve taken that “it can be better to wait to have sex (or even kiss) a woman on a first date.” Here’s why: A friend of mine had a GREAT date with a woman, filled with flirting, chemistry, etc. But he didn’t kiss her …
