A reader writes in: ‘Hello Pat, I trust this message meets you well. I have an issue about dating to relate to you. I hope you find time amid your busy schedule to provide clarity. I met a girl I am attracted to, and we started speaking. In my observation, I would say she’s a […]
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An occasional concern I get from prospective clients is whether there is going to be “actionable advice” in our workings together. They know I get “deep work” and know my stuff about women… but will I tell them specifically what to do and say to a girl? Are they gonna get the right homework assignments, and systems
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A tweet went viral the other day, which led to some pretty interesting differences in opinion: As you might have expected, a lot of guys — including yours truly — were throwing it back at her. This woman cancelled minutes before a date and thought the guy had a problem because it bothered him. You will hardly
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So one thing I speak about a lot is the difference between tactics and strategy. For instance, a major problem with guys who seek to become better with women is that they OBSESS upon their results with women. Which makes them outcome dependent, and thus not so good with the ladies. It’s for this reason
My Whole Philosophy On Women Is… Wrong? Read More »
Yesterday I put out a little thread on tactics / strategy in the realm of Persona. We’re going to explore this a little deeper now as it involves attraction dynamics. Recall the rule of attraction: men and women are attracted to opposite energies. Masculine desires feminine and vice versa. This is an important thing to internalize,
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TACTICS, STRATEGY, AND WOMEN In 218 BC, Hannibal of Carthage and his army crossed the Alps into Italy. The move brought with it considerable risk. The alps were dangerous territory — the weather was harsh, the passes narrow, and Hannibal’s army (which included elephants) suffered nearly half its force trying to pass through. But militarily,
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