A short and sweet email for you today: One common trait of “nice guys” is that they will go out of their way to try and accommodate women. There are a million reasons why this pisses women off. It makes them guilty, it results in the guy being resentful and passive aggressive. For the sake […]
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Very interesting topic today that needed to be addressed, as it has now come up a couple of times with different clients… and has shocked pretty much all of them. Cutting to the chase: Most guys expect a virgin or comparably sexually inexperienced woman to be shy. It’s an understandable assumption. A woman who is
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There’s a reason I’m a dating AND relationship coach. These two subject areas, while obviously overlapping, are in fact quite different. Something that becomes VERY apparent as a married guy (who had a LOT of experience dating)… when I see the regular commentary of manosphere bros asserting things that work in a casual context will
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Hey Pat,I appreciate your work, it has seriously helped me better my life. But I’d like your help with a situation I’m in right now. Last Friday, after dating for 4 months, I told my girlfriend I love her. She responded saying she loves me too. But on our most recent date, she told me
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A reader writes in: Thanks for putting out great content and actionable advice. I’ve been reading your stuff for probably 5-6 months now. I wanted to run my situation by you and see what you thought. I am a 22 year old guy and I’m struggling with whether to commit to a girl or not.
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There is a certain class of women who draws men to herself like moths to a flame. These women are often attractive, though eschew the done-up look of “instagram models” and others. They aren’t masculine, but have an easy banter with guys and don’t try to emphasize their differences from them. They have female friends,
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