Probably one of the biggest refrains in the manosphere is that women are attracted to masculinity, and are looking for masculine guys. Obviously, this is true. But what is also true, yet verboten to discuss, is that women can also be attracted to effeminate guys. Indeed, they are often seduced by them. The struggling artist. […]
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Put out this viral tweet about a month ago, and the amazing Dean Abbott asked me to elaborate: No surprise, it appears everyone in the manosphere understands that men give structure to women. Women are chaotic — women are nature. Men are order, they provide them with the required guidance to help them grow. Like civilization, they build
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Wasn’t planning on writing another double header today but received the following question on yesterday’s email worth elaborating on: Was reading the contents of the email and one questions popped up. If when a girl does this sort of thin, expresses the interest of a guy in her, and I “see” where this is coming from ie
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Received a question the other day re: one of my tweets: A lot of the nitty-gritty of this confusion comes down to definitions. So let’s attack this term “fantasy.” What does it really mean? I do not think it is useful to associate it with masculine and feminine ideals. Ideals are behaviors to strive for.
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As usual for most mornings, today I woke up, and after some light reading and journaling checked twitter to see what dumb stuff was going on in the world (and what clever takes my mutuals had to say about it). But to my surprise, today in my DMs weren’t questions about some situation with so-and-so’s
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It’s been much commented on that women today don’t know how to follow or surrender to men. Generally, there are two opinions on why this is. First is that women today have been programmed to be feminazis and associate such things with weakness instead of being naturally in tune with their femininity. Second is that
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So, as you know from being on this list, I try to take a kind but hyper-realistic view of male and female nature. Something which is increasingly at odds with the idealistic mainstream. Often, it can seem pretty isolating… just a few guys against the world. But you might be surprised to learn, even in
I almost didn’t write this email, since unlike most of my emails (which provide direct, practical advice) this one is going to seem impractical to many of you. (Who knows, it might just even piss you off.) But it’s a truly important that you guys hear it. Because the impact of it is substantial and extremely
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I was hanging out with a couple the other day, and found myself instantly fascinated by the dynamic. The guy was average to shorter in height, baby-faced, skinny-fat, and just shy of below average looking facially. Moreover, he was pretty meek. Didn’t generate all that much attention to himself, and had a very “nice guy”
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“Hi Pat. I hope you’re well. I was just reading the Mary Magdalen section in “The Way Forward” that reminded me of a question I asked Mr. Tomassi. I’d very much enjoy your answer to the same question. “Hi Rollo. I’ve been meaning to ask you about something that’s bothered me a bit about some
