Why Deservedness Beats Discipline

So yesterday I put out a very important tweet that got very little engagement: “Deservedness > Discipline” I think it got like 3 likes or something — pretty shit for an almost 11K account. Honestly though I wasn’t all that surprised. It was a very unclear tweet (partially by design)… and everyone knows el mano-sphere …

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1 Lesson From 30 Years

I turned 30 today. I should probably have a multitude of “wisdom snippets” for all of you — various things I’ve learned over the years. But I’m going to save those snippets for my clients. The truth is what I’ve learned over over the past decade, since I started on this path of understanding attraction …

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How To Get Rid Of Bad Habits

Like many other men, I have struggled with destructive habits. I have consumed on a regular basis excessive alcohol, disgusting pornography, mind-numbing television, and emotionally-triggering (and unenlightening) news. I have pursued immature, dramatic women, surrounded myself with negative, stagnant friends, and avoided any sort of movement that made me sweat. And I have suffered as a …

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