Was sent this interesting story from a subscriber a week or so ago, in response to my email about boundaries: “This email made me want to share with you how refusing to chase and maintaining frame saved my relationship with my fiancée.We have been together for almost 5 years. I thought I had a good […]
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Recently one of my clients and I have been working on getting this girl (who likes him, and has said as much) to hang out. In theory, this should be easy. As I said she’s already expressed interest, and the last date they went on they ended up making out in a back alley. But
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Last weekend I went out for my soon-to-be-married friend’s bachelor party. Like most bachelor parties, the plan was drinks, dinner, and then a little “after hours” fun at a strip club. Our goal was to give him a little public humiliation — to have some girls abuse him in front of the crowd. And, of
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Recently yours truly had an article of his rejected by an esteemed magazine. Now, no need to get our your torches and pitchforks out in my defense. They’re good people, and I’m OK. In fact — I was expecting it to happen — even though the content was great. You see, even though *I* like
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Almost every guy out there has at one point found himself enamored with a woman. So as one of those men, I’m sure you’ve said something like this before (or at least heard it from other guys): “She’s different than other girls” “She cares about me in ways no other woman does” “We really get
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THE WOMEN YOU DESERVE Much angst is made in male circles these days about the “modern woman.” You’ve heard about her. Entitled. Out of shape. Negative. Often psychologically unstable. For most guys, not their dream partner. So endemic and unpalatable is this “modern woman” that a new fantasy among men has arisen: the foreign girl.
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LEARN TO SAY NO AND DO WHAT YOU WANT It was a warm, fall Sunday afternoon – and we had arrived. Mike’s Seafood. The *best* seafood on the Jersey Shore. Kate was eager for some crab legs. Me, not so much. Normally, I’d be right there with her – but the tedious labor of extracting
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