Client the other day was out at an event with some girls he had spent time with on prior occasions. Normally, he had been “the nice guy.” They treated him OK, but he was along for the ride. Yet this time, they were responding to him differently. They were looking to him more to make […]
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Yet another provocation on the timeline turned up the other day. Anddd I’ve got a couple things to say about this one. (Highlights in text so no need to watch if you don’t want to) Let’s dissect this bit by bit: — “If he touches you on the first date, he’s not that into you.
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Was chatting with a client the other day when an amusing yet tragic scenario came up. First a little backstory: My client is pretty good with women. Attractive dude, knows game and how to flirt. Girls often take an interest in him, and he tends to encourage them by “pulling back” exactly when he needs
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Very provocative comment from the great Tristan Tate today: But you know what guys? He’s right. In fact, the only thing I’d disagree with him about is semantic — that having a controlling “trad-con” father is as much of a “daddy’s issue” for a girl as having no father. Which is why I bring it up. Because
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Short but sweet email for you on this Monday. But I wanted to get this material on nagging out… because I think it’s a topic most men don’t really get. Understandably, 100% of guys hate it. It is probably one of the most annoying things a woman can possibly do in a relationship. It is
A reader the other day asked a very important question: Do you have thoughts on what I can do to improve relationship with my parents? I have always had a strained relationship with them and recently moved out to begin to stay with my friend (I’m never pulling my weight nor living up to potential).
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Hey Pat, Thank you for all the content you put out. My girlfriend and I of about 5 months got into our first real argument a few days ago which has left a sour taste in my mouth. The argument seems very childish I admit, but I feel like there may be bigger issues at
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A little story from a client the other day: He’s been dating this girl for a few months now. She’s attractive, sex is great… but she’s been starting to wear on him. Because she’s a very, very anxious and needy girl. They “have to” talk every night, often quite late. She’ll have occasional “meltdowns” where
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Was talking to a soon-to-be new client last night about a situation he’s been experiencing with a recent ex. And something came up that I wanted to make note of. A little backstory: Our friend’s relationship has taken a very classic, tragic arc. They got together a year ago, and had the classic “honeymoon” period.
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A subscriber writes in: I have a bit of a luxury or somewhat unusual problem. I can’t get rid of a girl. She is 25 and actually good looking (though I strongly assume she already has quite a history with guys). Well, she is chasing me, she loves me. Since 2,5 years already. I told
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