Thread went viral the other day that generated some controversy: I found it very interesting — mostly because it’s a perfect example of how the pendulum continues to swing back and forth in manosphere, particularly between the red pill / PUA sections and the trads. A lot of action and reaction, not a lot of […]
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As you guys know, I rarely make statements without proper nuance and context. But gonna pretty much make an exception today. Because the rate of failure of relationships with women like these approaches 100%. Which women am I talking about? I won’t leave you in suspense: Women who were recently cheated on / broken up
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One thing that seems incomprehensible, and indeed threatens permanent resentment for many “recovering nice guys” is why — despite all the kind things they did — the women they loved and cared for could act so cruel to them. These are guys who were, on paper, the perfect boyfriends — they were considerate, generous, patient.
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Got a couple of good responses to a recent email I wanted to address. First one: I think this is generally right on but here with a one year old? You may be missing what goes on in new mother’s physiology, it’s like a recovering drug addict for *a lot* of these women. — I
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Hey Pat, I’ve gotten a lot of great advice from you I’m a bit embarrassed about this question but would really love to hear your take. Having to send this from my junk email account… I’ve been married for 8 years and started dating my wife 15 years ago, in high school. We have a 1
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Recently there was a tweet going around that got some traction. And some of you asked me to comment: As the title of this post suggests, the advice above is full-blown manosphere retardation. It’s one of those tweets that not only pretends to be “alpha” and “logical” in order to rationalize emotional avoidance… but belies a complete
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A reader writes in about a situation with his girlfriend (he is not a native speaker so feel free to scroll past for TL;DR below): “Pat, I really appreciate your thought and your work and I would live an advice from you. I am in a LTR for almost two years, I started it as
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