Relationships

The Bad Girl Bear Trap

Love and hate a situation that emerged with a client the other day. Love it cause it’s one of my favorite topics, but hate it cause it’s always a difficult convo… as guys hate to hear. Basically, my client is seeing this girl. Very attractive. They slept together on their first date, and apparently the

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Is She The One?

Common question I get — and one that arose with a client recently — is how you can know whether a girl is “the one.” Is there something about her that’s different than other girls? What emotions should you feel? It’s a good question, though obviously a difficult one to answer. First because of the

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Masculinity and Tension

A new year, a new manosphere motif. First it was cold showers, then black coffee and rare steaks. Now the current fad among the gentlemen on Twitter seems to be semen retention. The idea going around is that “holding it in” isn’t simply good from a health standpoint (there are a lot of nutrients in

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Should You Tell On An Ex?

A surprisingly somewhat normal story emerged on reddit worth commenting on (scroll past for summary): Basically, this girl’s ex shows up at her place the night of his bachelor party. And in his drunken state, he professed his feelings for her and regret things didn’t work out between them. Her question for the internet: should

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The Value of A Woman

“To a great extent, the level of any civilization is the level of it’s womanhood. When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her. The higher her virtue, the more her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy

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Why To Steal A Man’s Girl

Short email for you today. But wanted to give a coda to a series I began back in February. Part 1: Should You Steal Another Man’s Girl? Part 2: *How* To Steal Another Man’s Girl If you were wondering what happened, well… My client got the girl. And now they are married and expecting the first addition

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How A Woman Opens Up A Man

Put out this viral tweet about a month ago, and the amazing Dean Abbott asked me to elaborate: No surprise, it appears everyone in the manosphere understands that men give structure to women. Women are chaotic — women are nature. Men are order, they provide them with the required guidance to help them grow. Like civilization, they build

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