One mantra that’s seemingly dogma in our corner of the community are the terms AWALT and NAWALT — for the uninitiated, “all women are like that” and “not all women are like that.” The former is used to ram home the fact that women have a predisposed biological nature that cannot be overridden; the latter …
On the bus down to the shore the other day, a guy in front of me started talking on the phone with a woman. (Not sure if it was his wife, but that’s my best guess) It was pretty painful to listen to. It was clear the two of them did NOT have a good …
The other day I read a long, personal email from Alex Allman, a thought leader when it comes to relationships (and a man I deeply respect). It was revealing on the nature of attraction and took on many topics, among them Pick Up. I won’t go into the full email as I actually found most …
Last weekend I went out for my soon-to-be-married friend’s bachelor party. Like most bachelor parties, the plan was drinks, dinner, and then a little “after hours” fun at a strip club. Our goal was to give him a little public humiliation — to have some girls abuse him in front of the crowd. And, of …
TACTICS, STRATEGY, AND WOMEN In 218 BC, Hannibal of Carthage and his army crossed the Alps into Italy. The move brought with it considerable risk. The alps were dangerous territory — the weather was harsh, the passes narrow, and Hannibal’s army (which included elephants) suffered nearly half its force trying to pass through. But militarily, …
Are you worried about getting a girlfriend? Are you afraid you might never get laid? Fear not my friends! Because soon the robot sex revolution will be here! You won’t even need a woman, because you’ll have a super hot “cyberchick” who will fulfill all your needs without any of the drama, complaints, or ‘resistance’ regular ladies …
Embracing Death A few days ago my wife had a dream that I died. I had had a heart attack. Collapsed right in front of her. I won’t lie, I found it a little funny. I have a relatively morbid sense of humor and don’t take my own death too seriously. But she could barely …
Been working with one of my clients recently on his troubled marriage. It’s a challenging situation to say the least. The usual occurred: Guy makes some big mistakes that kill comfort, guy responds to his mistakes with placating actions that kill desire. (Read: The 2 Sources Of Relationship Conflict) Basically, the more he’s talked to her, …
Spend enough time in this corner of the world, and you’ll hear plenty of bitter men talk about how girls aren’t attracted to “nice guys.” Allegedly, they only like assholes — people who treat them like shit. *Not* the gentlemen who treat them well and take care of them. Is this true? Like most things …
Ever had a woman turn you down for sex? No, I’m not talking about a girl you’ve been trying to hook up with… though of course that happens from time to time. I’m talking about girls you’ve slept with before, and that you’ve been actively dating. Not the “conquests,” the one’s you’re committed to. It sucks, right? Here you …
