One thing you get used to in the self-improvement circles is everybody opining on what you “have” to do. Pretty much every day I see comments like the following: “This is the schedule you should follow to make your day efficient.” “This is the workout you need to use if you want to get ripped.” […]
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When it comes to “having a feminine woman,” most conversation in our corner of the internet revolves around making sure you pick the right woman. I agree, just as a sculptor needs to choose his block of marble carefully, you must choose your woman with the same level of discernment. But also like a sculptor,
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One term that always confused me a bit was “emotional cheating.” Maybe confused isn’t the right word, but the whole thing seemed a bit weird. Is it when someone gets close to regular cheating but holds themselves back? Is it simply a lesser form of cheating? Or is it something else entirely? I’ve started to
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About a year ago I wrote a two-part article on the difference between Dominance and Seduction. (Read: Part 1 & Part 2) It’s a topic that fascinates me to this day. The main question that still remains for me is how it plays into game. Let me take you down my line of inquiry… I consider both Dominance
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One thing that gets talked up a lot in more “mainstream” dating advice circles is communication. Got a problem? Express it. Be vulnerable. Be open. Of course, as we know, men need to be cautious when it comes to such advice. Vulnerability is best expressed from a position of strength, otherwise your masculinity will diminish in her eyes. (To
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Everyone who’s at least somewhat awake to gender dynamics understands, when it comes to preselection, women desire men who are high status and good-looking. Bad looks, you need status. Low status, you need looks. (though note: status is relative to the environment, so don’t think you need to be an international celebrity to have high
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I talk a lot about the importance of strategy over tactics. As in, not focusing on short-term actions that undermine the broader goal. Some examples? – Trying to get a girl when the very act of pursuit undermines your frame– Gaming a girl who is not a good fit for your broader relationship goals– Orienting
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My second interview with the great Nabeel Azeez Enjoy! https://www.stitcher.com/show/becoming-the-alpha-muslim/episode/how-to-develop-your-personality-to-become-a-more-attractive-husband-52431342
PART 2: PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTRACTION As we discussed in Part 1, pheromones and intelligence lay the ground work for Chemistry to occur. But it is psychology itself that brings two people together, and that is what we will explore now. Our minds are wired in distinct ways, and that wiring determines whether we are drawn to
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PART ONE: PHEROMONES AND INTELLIGENCE Previously in our Three Pillars of Attraction series we capped off the Second Pillar of Attraction, Persona. Now we’re going to finally finish it by tackling Personality. The first thing to understand about Personality is that it is fundamentally different from the other two pillars of attraction. It operates in
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