Relationships

Am I Becoming A Feminist?

Gonna harp a little more on the hypergamy fixation again today. Not, as I’ve repeatedly emphasized, because it’s not true. Because there’s something a lot of people miss when they talk about it. Most consider hypergamy an indication of female amorality. I think you can argue this, fairly. But then you have to also look

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Birthday Surprise

Today is an exciting day for me. My 30th birthday is in just a few days, and my wife has been planning some monumental surprise for me starting in the next 10 minutes. I didn’t really plan on doing anything, since I thought I would be in France for it a couple of months ago

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The Virtues of Hard Women

We spoke yesterday about hard men and soft women. But what about hard women? Do they have a place, romantically? The answer: It depends. (a frustrating answer, I know) We’ll talk about one growing niche for such women tomorrow, but historically they’ve actually been quite important… at least in militaristic societies. These societies cultivate hardness.

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Why Men Are Tough

Yesterday on Twitter, Kathryn Hogan (@KathrynmHogan – great follow BTW) responded to my tweet with an interesting question. Me: “A woman can only be soft if her man is hard. Most modern men are not up to the challenge.” Her: “Do you think this is a goes both ways thing? That a man can’t be hard

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The Battle of the Personas

Yesterday we mentioned how both Biological and Psychological attraction have a Persona element to them. I’m going to explain why this makes sense… and why it matters. To take a step back: You can look at Status/Wealth/Looks (Preselection, Biological) and Type/Values/Growth (Personality, Psychological) as being relatively concrete things. Persona, on the other hand, is more

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Pussy King

I just finished “Vikings” series. (Or at least, what’s out so far) ***I won’t try to give too many spoilers… but if you’re not yet through season 4, you might want to close the email now.*** There’s a character in the show called Harald. When you first meet Harald, he’s an ambitious Earl, on his

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