A big problem with black-white thinking on relationships is there is an assumption that all “beta” styled relationships are the same… and that the same approach will work for each of them. There are two types I see commonly. The first is the “best friends” dynamic. This is a relationship characterized but trust and comfort. […]
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The other week I was in Nashville, and spent an evening at the famous Bluebird Cafe. For those who don’t know, the Bluebird Cafe is a tiny, non-descript bar in a shopping center outside of Nashville. Seats no more than 100 people. Surrounded by “California Pizza Kitchen” and other bunk food and retail chains. And
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An acquaintance sent out a message to her group chat the other day that I found very interesting. (yes, I have spies who share such things with me) A little background on said woman before we dive in: She had been dating a guy who was poly, but the relationships was dysfunctional and eventually ended…
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This email is guaranteed to offend some, but I want an honest look at this. I got into an exchange with the great Geoffrey Miller the other day. He’s a famous “evolutionary sex” scientist and polyamory advocate. Now, I want to be clear about some things. I’ve got nothing against Geoffrey. I think he’s a
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Last weekend was the biggest amount of time I’ve wasted in ages. I let a strange addiction take me over, something I had buried a long time before and thought I had passed. Axis and Allies. Not necessarily because I love to PLAY the game. Because I try to modify it. I want to make the game
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As you know, I took a break from Twitter and this list last week. Some of it was family-time. Some of it was an already filled-up coaching schedule. The rest of it? Recalibrating my thoughts. I started working with a mentor, and he’s already significantly impacting my outlook on things…crystallizing some ideas that I’ve been
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A common adage in the dating scene is “opposites attract, but they don’t stay together” There’s a lot of truth to this expression. “Opposite” personalities are generally incompatible… they interact with the world in different ways. So while relationships are possible, they aren’t natural. And yet, such people often get together. What gives? Nothing too crazy,
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One of the interesting things about relationships are the little habits and patterns people establish over time.Inside jokes, rituals — things that may “kill” the honeymoon phase of novelty, but over time become a source of comfort and grounding. Unfortunately, most develop “bad” habits too — cycles that lead to fights and hurt feelings. I
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Gonna cut right to the point today, since it’s already late in the day (things have been crazy around here, was up to 5AM last night with work). It seems that like many things, relationships have taken a turn towards extremes. Many people can’t even have a relationship, the experience is so bad. Most who
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Yesterday we talked about when and how your girl will “jump ship.” Today we’ll talk about how to make sure that essentially will never happen. Let me tell you a story about a friend of mine. He’s a decent looking guy, in shape, has great game… and at the time had a successful, but still
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