Put out a thread the other day on this: It’s funny, isn’t it? Men know they need to initiate to get the girl. They know they are the ones that need to escalate to make things sexual. But once that threshold is met, and sex becomes regular and easy, they begin to assume this is […]
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A reader writes in: Let’s say the situation is this: a man and a woman who were in a 2-3 years LTR break up (let’s say the decision came from the man, but it doesn’t change the question if it were the other way around), and then spent 1 or 2 months single, with basically
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Probably one of the biggest refrains in the manosphere is that women are attracted to masculinity, and are looking for masculine guys. Obviously, this is true. But what is also true, yet verboten to discuss, is that women can also be attracted to effeminate guys. Indeed, they are often seduced by them. The struggling artist.
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A reader writes in: So I went on this date with a girl about 2 weeks ago (I’m 28 and she is 23). Our parents are friends and I’ve known her a long time. She is getting out of a short term relationship (like 4 months)… I take her out for drinks and appetizers at
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The 5 Types of Guys I Work With Unsurprisingly for a dating and relationship coach, I’m frequently asked “what sort of stuff do you work on with clients?” To my embarrassment, I am usually pretty poor at answering this question. In most professions these days, you are essentially a specialist. And this is no different
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Another incredible story from Relationship Reddit: Before we go into this, however, it’s important to address the elephant in the room: Is this story even real? You have to be cautious with anonymous internet posts, as you have no idea if people are actually telling you the truth… or whether they are making it up
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Relationship reddit as usual delivered the other day: The funny thing about the modern era is that it has created all these problems when it comes to sex. And then inevitably begins to default back to “archaic” solutions. For instance, adultery wayyy back when used to be punished by death. Later as we became more
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A reader writes in: good morning pat! i watched your talk at the 22 convention on youtube & learned so much. thank you!! i had a Q around energy dynamics. in the talk, you mentioned how men have so much life force. & women are drawn to that life force, which i resonate with as a woman
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat – appreciate your newsletter one of the best out there. Not sure if any others have messaged you if it’s common enough for a post or tweet, but love to get your take/ advice for someone in mixed political marriage? Married in 2008 before things got crazy, my wife
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One of the most infamous and ridiculed expressions in the manosphere is the normie exhortation: “happy wife, happy life.” And it’s ridiculed for good reason. In most contexts, it’s a justification for a man in a relationship to appease his woman at the expense of his self-respect. It is placation. He needs to do everything in
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