I got a question from a subscriber recently about an interesting situation. Basically, this guy is being courted by a married woman. She claims her marriage is good, and that she loves her husband. The only problem… she’s not satisfied sexually. And she wants this guy to “take care of her needs”, in order to help […]
One thing I (and increasingly more) of the denizens of Twitter find hilarious is how much people in the red pill world obsess about who is Alpha and who is Beta. Part of this is funny because it’s just a stupid conversation. To use the jargon, guys who are extremely dominant and “run” the household
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Going to keep this one brief since it’s a bit late and I have a Beaujolais and tracksuit party to go to… despite — or should I say, especially — due to our first snowstorm. (it’s this sort of magical randomness that makes me love NYC) Anyway, the headline is a topic I find comes up with
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One of the big grievances of RP guys is that women won’t love you unconditionally. It’s a true statement, though not a particularly interesting one. (Nobody except God loves unconditionally. Even a devoted mother has her limits on affection.) And the emphasis on it can stray into dangerous territory. For instance, while it’s good to know
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I am currently dealing with two clients who are relatively inexperienced with women and, since we’ve been working together, have in the last couple of weeks started seeing girls. One of these guys is in college, and met the girl at an extracurricular hobby. The other, a young professional who met a lady at a
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I received a question the other day from a reader about his marriage, which has been in a rough place since, well, approximately the beginning of their time together (nearly 20 years ago). He’s asking me what he should do. An excerpt (skipping some details for brevity): [Basically, I have a tremendously difficult time, and
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My wife and I have a little Halloween tradition we’ve started of watching the Rocky Horror Picture Film each year around that spooky night. (Last year we saw a live performance in a movie theatre while drunk off flat champagne… good times) Anyway, something struck me last year and was internalized even further when I
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I briefly tweeted out a thread yesterday on this topic before deleting it. (The topic wasn’t “red meat” for the twitter… and perhaps a bit too controversial… plus I think threads have become passé) But I figured why not turn it into an email for you guys instead, even if it is a bonus. This
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As some of you perhaps saw from my buzzed tweets this weekend, I was at a NY gala. (We’re big fans of “classing it up” and since I don’t anticipate being in NY much longer, best to enjoy the scene.) Anyway, we’re not the only ones who enjoy it. It’s also a big favorite locale
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Hi Pat,this might be a bit offtopic, but something just came back to my mind recently. Before I’ve read “No more mister nice guy“, the sexlife with my wife went downhill greatly after about 6 months into the marriage. It turned out, it was because of resentment on my side and constant pressure for her
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