A reader writes in about an interesting dilemma: Hey pat, would love to hear your opinion on this situation I’m in. I’m having somewhat of a hard time. I’m seeing 2 different women and not sure which one I should get serious with. One of them seems crazy about me, she seems very open to […]
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It’s the day after Christmas, and after a long couple of days with my family… my wife and I are about to hop on a flight to visit hers. Christmas is a serious event in both our families. We always spend the week before with mine, the week after with hers, and trade the day
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A very regular question I get. And one too dependent on context, if we’re being frank, to really answer for you right now. (This is what coaching is for) But let’s speak “macro” for today’s email This question comes up with lot with guys who might be with a girl for awhile, but they’ve started having some
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So I heard an inspiring story the other day. It’s about a girl I’ve known since my youth, but haven’t talked to in a few years. She’s an average to above-average looking girl, though nothing to write home about aesthetically. But she’s clever, confident, loyal, and by all accounts pretty good in bed. (This is
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I got into a conversation with the daygame guys yesterday (always a pleasure), and the topic fell once again upon the topic of a strong woman. Now, this is based on something I said the other day… more or less that “strong men want strong women.” And to be honest, I regret my phrasing. “Strong
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Today’s topic is a biggie, gentlemen… so strap yourselves in. We’ll be talking about something I know not many others talking about. “Friends” who will try to steal your girl (snakes). Now, a caveat before we begin. There are only two things you need to really worry about when it comes to cheating. a) How
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Gonna make today’s email short and sweet… because it’s not anything we need to make too complicated. Guys talk a lot about how to hold frame in relationships, and they’ll mention all sorts of ‘tactical’ hacks. Agree and amplify. Dread game. Cocky funny. You’ve heard a lot of tricks and concepts, I’m sure. But really,
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A bit ago I got a question from a reader on a topic I don’t know too much about, at least from personal experience. But it’s a good one since it’s one of those questions everybody just parrots the usual answers about, like a bunch of dummies. I am talking about whether or not you
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Years back when I was a young warthog and the Pick Up world was in its post-“The Game” affiliate marketing heyday, I used to buy all sorts of products being parroted to me. Some, as you might imagine, were wastes of money. Others, life changing. But a handful skirted into this no-mans-land territory of usefulness.
How A Middle Aged Man Gets Women Off With Only His Words Read More »
I was hanging out with a couple the other day, and found myself instantly fascinated by the dynamic. The guy was average to shorter in height, baby-faced, skinny-fat, and just shy of below average looking facially. Moreover, he was pretty meek. Didn’t generate all that much attention to himself, and had a very “nice guy”
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