I received an interesting, complicated question I’ll try to distill here for you… because it’s a very important topic. Basically, the question revolved around how you were supposed to maintain the frame with a woman while being vulnerable… and if it ever made sense to “drop frame.” (For those just joining us on this concept, check out […]
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A reader writes in: Ive been talking to this girl for the past 5 months. We got pretty close made out a few times. In the last month we had a few arguments and now she wants nothing to do with me. She says im a bad person and she was wrong about me but
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So I got a question from a reader yesterday about a very classic issue: how to “spice up” things in a long term relationship, where the sex has become routine and stagnant… (Example: woman wants sex the same way every time, doesn’t want to show parts of her body anymore etc… meanwhile guy wants to
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So to continue with these 80s movies themes, last week I also saw the Breakfast Club. Which turned out to be a very, very interesting exploration of sexual psychology. Let’s talk first about the biggest character in the film, Bender. Bender is a grungy, edgy guy who dresses like a rockstar, does drugs, disrespects authority,
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Short email here, since we’ve got another one coming out later this afternoon. So got asked this fun question a few days ago from a former client: What is the fundamental issue men who are struggling with women all have in common? I’ll cut right to the chase… To be honest, I’m not sure there
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So as many of you who follow me saw, we had another little spat with the red pill guys last night. Not sure exactly how it happened. I haven’t mentioned them in ages. Think a fan might have tagged them in a thread calling them out on my behalf (thanks dude lol). At any rate,
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So a story I heard the other day… A family friend recently a cancer scare.And though he came out of it alive… it made him question some life choices. You see, this guy had 3 grown kids and a wife. Or should I say, a “long time live in girlfriend”… since they never formally married
So hier soir (yesterday eve) I stumbled across a tweet that made me chuckle: To the guy before me that broke her heart….fuck you! You abused and degraded her. You made her feel worthless and imperfect. It won’t be easy and there’s a good chance I’ll get hurt, but I’ll show her she’s perfect. I’ll
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I got asked this question a bit ago surprisingly not from one of you dear gentlemen, but @sarahjeangosney (follow if you want to see what healthy female self-improvement looks like). Cutting to the chase… the truth is, I didn’t make my decision as most guys say you should. I didn’t do a long trial period
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If you’ve spent any amount of time being intimate with a woman, you know women go through periods of what we call “craziness.” They might get upset about something stupid. Blow another thing out of proportion. Be emotional for no real reason whatsoever. As a guy — especially a guy raised in this society —
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