As many of you saw, I put out a few tweets the other day re: how “not crying” doesn’t make you tough, it’s a sign of emotional repression: Some of you wanted me to elaborate on this a bit. Honestly I think my comments speak for themselves. Guys around these parts are so insecure about how […]
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Had a conversation with a client recently who has been going through a bit of dilemma. Long story short, he’s had a girlfriend for awhile now. Sweet, pretty girl. Good values. Perfect wife material. But he’s not really happy being with her. Her personality is a bit plain and boring. Anyway, enter this girl he
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So earlier this week my wife and I watched one of the worst “chick flicks” either of us have ever seen: “Letters to Juliet” I am going to ruin this stupid movie for you, so don’t read this email if you actually want to watch it for some reason. Ok, so the main protagonist is
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So the other day I put out a thread on monogamy on Twitter. And received the following question in response: “interesting ideas… could you expand on the leveraging of libido among others’ point? And what you mean by ‘exploring their shadows’ — what does this actually entail a person doing? I get the idea but don’t
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So a few days ago I put out a thread today that’s going a bit viral on the nature of male and female energy. You can read the thread here. But, some elaboration on it… and why I’m talking about these things now.I’ve gone through an enormous number of layers and models when it comes
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In Defense of Rollo Tomassi As many, if not most of you, know — I’ve had a long, not-so-cordial history with Rollo Tomassi. Those who aren’t caught up can see an anthology of our history here, dating back to summer 2017: Pt 1: The Ultimate Imperative Pt. 2: The Way Forward Pt. 3: What Is
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Was sent this interesting story from a subscriber a week or so ago, in response to my email about boundaries: “This email made me want to share with you how refusing to chase and maintaining frame saved my relationship with my fiancée.We have been together for almost 5 years. I thought I had a good
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A reader writes in: Thanks for putting out great content and actionable advice. I’ve been reading your stuff for probably 5-6 months now. I wanted to run my situation by you and see what you thought. I am a 22 year old guy and I’m struggling with whether to commit to a girl or not.
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It’s a big question I’ve been getting from guys, especially recently. Can a relationship on the rocks be salvaged? Can their woman change? The short answer is unfortunately the least satisfying one: It depends. But I’ll give you some criteria to determine whether or not it’s possible in your case. The first variable is unfortunately
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Gonna cut straight to the chase.I’m tired of hearing a phrase uttered all over the “relationships advice” world. A phrase everybody THINKS they want. But, actually ends up only making them miserable. The magic little statement? “Stop having fights!” Pretty crazy to hate on that, right? Who in their everloving mind would want to have
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