One thing peddled quite a bit by the mainstream is the idea of repression, particularly sexual repression. It’s a very freudian concept, one at this point almost taken as a truism by modern dating and relationship writers: Repression is the #1 problem in intimate relationships. Commonly, you hear it directed towards anti-porn crusaders, religious conservatives or […]
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A reader writes in: Something I became aware of from this relationship is that I have a need to help the other person, and I start to become drained if I’m not. I started to look back at previous relationships and I noticed a trend that even included women who were very broken, and while
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Received the following request for this topic the other day: It’s an interesting phenomenon, and a lot of guys have mixed feelings on the topic. I won’t go into too much depth here… (It’s one of the topics I cover extensively in my course, which BTW is set for release Monday November 25th…) But a
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I found it an interesting synchronicity that tddaygame put out this tweet the other day: It reminded me of a situation going on with my friend right now. One that many a man, myself included, has gone through. And if handled incorrectly… can mean absolute destruction for your life. What is this critical mistake? Well,
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So last night I was at a media mixer, talking about the state of dating, relationships, all that good stuff. One of the other attendees was a woman who turned out to be a divorce lawyer. And boy did she have some interesting stories to tell. Now, I know a lot of you have this
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One of the big questions that circulates the “manosphere” is how you can judge whether or not a woman is someone you should commit to. There’s quite a bit of criteria people throw around. A few examples: – Down for sex anytime– Feminine– Takes care of herself physically– Does sweet stuff for you There’s more
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One of the most popular books in this corner is the vintage tome, The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. The book is indeed a must-read. I recommend it to all of you.It’s a very deep book. I reread it every two years, and every time I draw more insight out of it.
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One of the big divides between “red pill” / pick up communities and the mainstream is about age. Which age of a girl is appropriate for a guy to date, and which isn’t? A lot of people, older women of course, but even other middle aged guys with daughters… find the impulse to date “low”
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One of the key things you NEED to understand if you’re ever going to succeed with women is that attention is everything to them. It’s what they chase. To the extent they care about wealth, it’s because money grants them more attention. Diamonds — attention. Fashion — attention. Attention gets to the heart of the female identity
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