Saw a very tragic story in the Relationship Reddit, one I wanted to comment on: Most of the comments are directed against this guy — like he is the “bad one” here. And I get it. He lost his temper, he was mean to her, he scared her. But at the risk of sounding like some people […]
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Was really backed up on some DMs, so rather than answer them each individually I decided to tackle a bunch of them here:- QUESTION #1 Hey Pat, was hoping to ask you for some advice. I met this girl on a dating app (I know I know…) and we texted back and forth and the
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat — I’d like some advice on an ex girlfriend. I’m an INTP and enneagram type 5 if that may help. Personally, I don’t have much trouble getting girls or having sex with them but my ex (only girl I have been a relationship with in the last 5 years
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A long time reader was not super happy about an email I put out a few days back about players mostly getting their notches from promiscuous girls: I’m a little taken aback by the latest email. Have you read Sex at Dawn? Not sure I agree with all the analysis on the latest email from
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Warning those of you who are more on the “prude” side. This is very much a TMI email. Don’t read on if you don’t want to hear a lot of unpolite conversation about vaginas. —— This is one of the more funny questions I’ve gotten. But a client asked it, so I wanted to clear
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Was talking to a client last week, and he brought up an interesting problem. First, a little context: This client is crushing it with women. He’s a day game monster, approaching very often 20+ women each week. He shows up weekly to calls, is honest and introspective, and takes enormous action. He’s not at an elite
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An interesting tweet by Michael Sebastian got some traction yesterday, as did my response: Going to elaborate on it, because I think it’s something trad guys in particular struggle to understand about attraction. Cutting to the point: People have all sorts of dumb fantasies about what women used to want, as if female desire has
Got a question from a subscriber the other day, more or less asking the above. It’s a bit of a general question, and so is probably better answered in a blog post (maybe I will create one, one of these days…) But anyway, to spitball… The most important things you NEED to do after a
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One thing that really irks me about so many of the internet larpers, ebook scammers, and dime-a-dozen “love experts” is the ignorance and arrogance that their simple, one dimensional formula will solve all of your romantic issues. Guy who learns how to take girls home after meeting them knows “the secret” to owning a woman’s
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Was speaking to a client today and an interesting topic came up. One I have not thought to discuss much, despite its importance. The background: When my client and I started working together, he wasn’t meeting too many new women, and had been consistently settling for “meh” looking girls who went after him that didn’t
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