In case you missed it, my interview with Jack Donovan is live. It was an honor to be on the show. For those who don’t know, Jack Donovan is probably one of the foremost experts in the world on male tribalism and psychology. He’s influenced an ENORMOUS number of ideas that we take for granted […]
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Question #1: Hey pat i just saw your tweet and wanted to ask you something. I dont need money or so i just need some good and sustainable non red pill relationship adviceIve been with my girl for 2 yearsIm 22 shes 20 She has an anxiety disorder and kinda low self esteem Around a
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A reader writes in: Hey Pat, Thanks for all the valuable content you put out. I‘m curious about your opinion on the situation I am in with a girl currently. I’m sure it’s pretty common amongst guys. I’ve been hanging out and having sex with a girl about 3 times a week for the past 3
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Apologies for the lack of emails of late. My mind, like many of yours, has been towards family and unravelling the mystery of this virus and what’s in store for society. Those of you who follow me on Twitter know that I’ve been going into some of my observations about the weird shit actually going (per
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A reader writes in: Should you aim for compatibility / a best friend, OR should you aim for someone where there is that instant sincere love (that warm feeling you get when you’re with family) That’s the short question. The backstory is I have a girl I’ve dated on and off for about 5 years
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I recently learned an acquaintance of mine is having an affair. Fortunately, right now it’s mostly emotional. There’s been just a few brief episodes of kissing — nothing more. But he’s really on the precipice. Things can’t stay in limbo: he’s either going to end this dalliance, or he’s going to indulge it. And once
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An interesting article was posted in our client-only group the other day I recommend you give it a read, but to summarize the argument… in addition to the classic five love languages defined by Gary Chapman (acts of service, gifts, physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation), the author notes that there is a sixth: distance. Cutting to
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One of my readers asks: It’s sad we’re at this point where the idea of romance has been questioned… though I understand how we got here. First, the macro dynamics between men and women changed. Women no longer need providers like they used to; “provisioning gestures” have thus lost much of their value proposition. Second —
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Was asked to comment about this thread: And I think I know the reason why. Our community is very much about thinking and acting like you are “the prize.” Viewed through a certain lens, this thread about women “knowing their value and acting like it” seems very feminist. But the truth is that I don’t really
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Last week I did something very “bad” from a business perspective, you might say. It was Valentine’s Day weekend, and yet I didn’t write out an in depth post talking about what you should do. There were a couple of reasons for this. But the main reason? I didn’t want to. Now, not because I’m
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