A very interesting study crossed my path from a client this morning I had to share. Basically the gist is that women who displayed “happiness” were deemed most attractive… while men were deemed the least. Meanwhile, men who displayed “pride” were considered sexiest; women the least. I think we can agree off the bat that […]
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Hey Pat I wanted to ask what your thoughts are on knowing whether a girl is the right one for marriage? I think I’ve dated enough to know what I want in a woman long term, not that I plan on getting married anytime within the next 4-5 years minimum. My gf comes from a
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As many of you know, I’m not one of the more “responsible” manosphere figures. I do not adhere to the stoic philosophy so much as the epicurean — I drink, celebrate, flaneur — life for me is about joie de vivre, spontaneity… not so much regimentation. Which I know will not resonate, at least not fully, with everybody reading this. And
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One of the most annoying things that women do is “nag” And unfortunately for many guys, it’s also one of the hardest things to nip in the bud. Once a woman gets in the habit of doing it, it can become incessant. How to stop this nagging? Fortunately, there are ways. But before we go
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Good tweet came to me the other day from Masculine Millennial: And unfortunately a scenario all too common. Guy starts dating a girl, has shit frame, and his friends aren’t too enthusiastic about her influence on him…… and before you know it, the girl starts isolating said guy from his friends… and if that fails,
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I talked about this on Twitter awhile back, and have been meaning to elaborate on it: The first reaction from a lot of guys, upon seeing this, was the usual cynical frustration you see so often in our corner. “Typical woman, leaving when things get rough” “Hypergamy doesn’t care” But there was an alternative take:
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Hi Pat, Thank you for your great content and for cleverly answering my question (love me as I am) in the last Q&A, too bad periscope isn’t more reliable. If you have time or if that can serve as material in one of the next ones, I have something to ask about that fascinating comment
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I wanted to give a little addendum, a little nuance if you will to the past email if you will. Because while it is true that being carefree — of eliminating shame to create desire — has ENORMOUS erotic power with women… It’s worth pointing out that a woman’s willingness to act on that desire depends on
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People spout a lot of bullshit about “what women want.” But the one “claim” that not only annoys me but is actively DEPRESSING to hear is that “girls only care about money.” Look, money is WONDERFUL to have (least of all women, if we’re being honest). And money IS an amplifier of attraction. But on its
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Had a chat with the controversial reddit red piller “GayLubeOil” the other day, where he reminded me of a very interesting concept surrounding women One that used to get quite a bit of attention from academics and psychologists back in the day… but has been strangely neglected in our little community. I’m talking about HYSTERIA.
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