Probably one of the biggest refrains in the manosphere is that women are attracted to masculinity, and are looking for masculine guys. Obviously, this is true. But what is also true, yet verboten to discuss, is that women can also be attracted to effeminate guys. Indeed, they are often seduced by them. The struggling artist. …
The 5 Types of Guys I Work With Unsurprisingly for a dating and relationship coach, I’m frequently asked “what sort of stuff do you work on with clients?” To my embarrassment, I am usually pretty poor at answering this question. In most professions these days, you are essentially a specialist. And this is no different …
A reader writes in: I am a regular reader of your newsletter from 2+ years. Today i got a doubt while seeing a tweet on timeline: In earlier time women used to give birth, breastfeed and take care of child. Men used to breadwinner of family. So men has some value associated to them. But …
One of the things that’s quite common in manosphere is this idea that dating and relationship issues are more or less the same. Why do relationships fail or get stagnant? Because the guy “isn’t desirable anymore.” He’s not alpha. It is taken for granted that these single guys won’t ever mess this up — in spite …
Was asked to comment on a tweet the other day that is sure to trigger some people: My take? While I believe I understand the place that this person is coming from, the phrasing is poor… and is a classic example of someone swinging from one extreme to another. It is is true, for instance, …
Short email for you today. But this topic’s been coming up a lot recently and needs addressing. A lot of guys have this fantasy in their mind that they “want the woman to initiate.” They are annoyed they always have to “make the move,” and at a certain point will often stop trying to have …
A reader writes in (lot of details, buckle up): “Good morning. Though this is embarrassing and shameful to discuss, would you consider addressing why women lose sexual interest in their husbands/partners? I know you don’t work directly with women (I’ve inquired before) but this latest development in my 12-year tumultuous relationship is very disturbing and …
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Thought provoking tweet appeared on the timeline the other day: What do I think about it? Some of you might be able to guess, as I’ve covered stuff like this before. Indeed, I almost decided to simply answer this in a tweet. But there were a couple of other details this time around that made …
A few weeks back an interesting chart crossed the feed on Twitter: The data on the richest cohort of course makes perfect sense — women love powerful men, and money offers power. But women also “cumming” as much with the upper middle class as with poor guys? What gives? After a second of thinking about …
