Musings

How Early Should You Get Married?

An interesting tweet about the differences in marriages came up on the timeline the other day: It’s a poignant observation, though it’s unclear exactly how historically accurate it is if you go way far back. In the 1950s sure, there was a lot of marriage taking place between men and women more or less at the same […]

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Why I “Bully Women”

So it seems as if I touched a nerve. Roobz — a woman who I have been on panels with, and who I have only ever supported — decided to make some comments about my marriage in a public forum. Apparently she felt it was appropriate to raise her opinion among strangers. So I raised the

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The Male Conquest of Women

Had a conversation with a client the other day that reminded me there’s a topic I haven’t much addressed. We’ve talked before about the romance process, and how it’s the man who pursues the woman. And how it’s a woman’s prerogative to put breaks on that process — to create obstacles, to say “not yet.”

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Are All Women Meant To Be Wives?

A controversial tweet came on the timeline today, with perhaps an even more controversial answer: What do I think? It’s not really a hard answer… NO not all women are meant to wives. Honestly it’s a bit tedious that we even need to rehash this. It’s a mind-virus that exists in many trad men and women.

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The Escort Archetype

The great Nash linked this old story of his on Twitter the other day, where he talks about a date with a girl who was well out of his comfort zone: The girl’s energy reminded me of a story I read a few years back, which I would struggle to find now, about a genuine escort detailing

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Romancing The Whore

Another good thread from Roobz decided to riff off of: First things first: women DO struggle to receive admiration for their beauty these days. Social programming has been very successful at traumatizing women and making them consider the “male gaze” oppressive or demeaning. Most of the modern problems in sexual dynamics flow downstream from this.

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Should You Tell On An Ex?

A surprisingly somewhat normal story emerged on reddit worth commenting on (scroll past for summary): Basically, this girl’s ex shows up at her place the night of his bachelor party. And in his drunken state, he professed his feelings for her and regret things didn’t work out between them. Her question for the internet: should

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