Musings

The End of the Beginning

Important housekeeping email for you guys today. Because there are a couple of large changes coming here in the next few days and months. **Skip to the end if you want the big announcement only** — Those who have followed me for a long time, might know that I have been “playing the game on …

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How Early Should You Get Married?

An interesting tweet about the differences in marriages came up on the timeline the other day: It’s a poignant observation, though it’s unclear exactly how historically accurate it is if you go way far back. In the 1950s sure, there was a lot of marriage taking place between men and women more or less at the same …

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Do Women Have Opinions of Their Own?

Had a comment in response to my last email, which was interesting. First things first, of course I will agree: politics isn’t sexy. It has not and never will be good policy to attract a woman by talking about current events or complaining about this or that politician or policy. Politics is about dominance hierarchies …

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Do Not Expect A Proportional Response

A little digression from our usual dating and relationship talk today, at least on the surface. Instead wanted to discuss a little drama going on in the manosphere. As many of you have undoubtably seen, the great Andrew Tate and Coltybrah have had a little bit of a spat. Coltybrah ran his mouth — as usual — and challenged …

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Why I “Bully Women”

So it seems as if I touched a nerve. Roobz — a woman who I have been on panels with, and who I have only ever supported — decided to make some comments about my marriage in a public forum. Apparently she felt it was appropriate to raise her opinion among strangers. So I raised the …

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Why Your Woman Stops Wanting Sex

If there is one topic that gets the average man to swallow his pride and seek out relationship advice, it’s sex. And the reason is simple: for the vast majority of men, the longer they are in their relationship, the less sex they have. The “honeymoon phase,” where a man and his woman sleep together …

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The Male Conquest of Women

Had a conversation with a client the other day that reminded me there’s a topic I haven’t much addressed. We’ve talked before about the romance process, and how it’s the man who pursues the woman. And how it’s a woman’s prerogative to put breaks on that process — to create obstacles, to say “not yet.” …

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Are All Women Meant To Be Wives?

A controversial tweet came on the timeline today, with perhaps an even more controversial answer: What do I think? It’s not really a hard answer… NO not all women are meant to wives. Honestly it’s a bit tedious that we even need to rehash this. It’s a mind-virus that exists in many trad men and women. …

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The Escort Archetype

The great Nash linked this old story of his on Twitter the other day, where he talks about a date with a girl who was well out of his comfort zone: The girl’s energy reminded me of a story I read a few years back, which I would struggle to find now, about a genuine escort detailing …

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Romancing The Whore

Another good thread from Roobz decided to riff off of: First things first: women DO struggle to receive admiration for their beauty these days. Social programming has been very successful at traumatizing women and making them consider the “male gaze” oppressive or demeaning. Most of the modern problems in sexual dynamics flow downstream from this. …

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