I put it out on the interwebs the other day a little drama that occurred in my broader social circle: Now, before I dive into this, I must defend myself. Someone asked why I didn’t just say off the bat I wasn’t interested. 2 reasons: First, I’m not sure what my troll’s social world is […]
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So the other weekend comi-con hit NYC, and I found myself at their official afterparty. Full disclosure: I know absolutely nothing about comics. Seen barely any superhero movies, the genre just doesn’t do all that much for me. But, a friend of mine was at the main event, dressed up as “fat thor” (absolutely incredible
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Recently I had the distinct displeasure of reading a piece in Harper’s Bazaar on why men have no friends. I suppose I should be happy about the article. Annoying rhetoric and condescension aside, it does bring awareness to the very real lack of male friendship these days. Basically — it argues as a result of
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Let’s cut to the chase on this one, shall we? If you want to rapidly gain more friends, and meet more women, you might benefit from a couple of things… but one is essential. Meeting more people. Which is why when a client (whose goal was just this) mentioned that he was invited to go
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PERSONA: THE SECOND PILLAR OF ATTRACTION (PART 2) In Part 1 we talked about the nature of Persona. Now we’re going to explore it in detail, how it interacts with the other Pillars of Attraction, and how it comes into play both when you’re single and in a relationship. Persona Converts Opportunities (And Strengthens The Other Pillars)
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PERSONA: THE SECOND PILLAR OF ATTRACTION In part two of this series, we discussed preselection — the first pillar of attraction. Now we’re going to address the second pillar (and one most talked about by dating coaches): Persona. Let’s dive in. The Two Halves Of Persona Like preselection, persona is composed of “comfort” aspects and
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PRESELECTION: THE FIRST PILLAR OF ATTRACTION In the last article in this series, we gave an overview of the three pillars of attraction. In this one, we’re going to zoom in on the first of those pillars: Preselection. Let’s get right into it. The Two Halves Of Preselection Within each pillar of attraction, there are a number of
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THE THREE PILLARS OF ATTRACTION I’ve been often asked, “Pat, if there is ONE thing you need to do to succeed in dating, what is it?” Generally, my go to response is this article. There is no question attraction lives and dies on the strength of a man’s frame. It is the safest and most
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THE 2 TYPES OF MEN AND WOMEN (AND THE GAMMA MALE AND FEMALE) In the “manosphere,” two main types of men are bandied about frequently. These archetypes are simplistic, but often useful: Alphas and Betas. Many of you may be familiar with them, but for those who aren’t, the concept behind these archetypes is simple.
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HOW TO HOST A PARTY Everybody wants friends, and smart people trying to build their social group make it a priority to connect with as many people as possible. But many make a crucial mistake: They never host anything. Knowing how to host a party is the single greatest mark of a social leader. A
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