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Why Adults Have No Friends

A reader writes in: I’m nearing the end of grad school and took some time to isolate and think, take inventory. I realized I’ve become miserable to the fact that I have no social circle anymore. In high school I was in the football team, in college I made new friends at the boxing gym […]

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The 3 Types Of Female Friends

So as many of you guys know, one of my most distinct and powerful concepts I’ve pushed is the idea of “friend-zoning” women. For those who don’t know, this is basically making a woman — and yes, often an attractive woman — your friend rather than pursuing her romantically. The goal being to “plant seeds”

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Can A Good Friend Hold You Back

A reader writes in: Hi Pat, I just had a major realization, that I’ve been living (to some extent) within the “frame” of a close male friend. E.g. seeking validation, following his lead in things. #nohomo Have you ever written about this, or have tips for how to build your own frame? — I’ve written about ditching

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Why Girls Think You’re Boring

Short and sweet content for you today. In yesterday’s email we talked about the problems smart guys have with women. The content revolved mostly around behavior and mindset. However, there is another more “macro” piece to the puzzle that applies to many in the high-IQ category. Their life is their work… and they don’t do

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How To Fix Your Friendships

Hey Pat, one thing has been on my mind recently. I feel like in my friendships with other men I am usually lower on their priority list than they are on mine. I get about a 50% response rate through text. Usually my texts are articles/tweets that I think are funny or invites to hang

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