Well here were are, back to blogging after a 9 month hiatus. It feels good to be back. But the break was sorely needed. The “red pill wars,” as history will call them, drained me of long form content. I needed a place to play around with ideas, reduce the pressure… and the daily email […]
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As you probably saw, the other day my friend Alexander Cortes courted a bit of controversy due to an “edgy” list about “how to be a beautiful woman.” The list went viral, and he not only ended up on the usual clickbait websites, but on the morning news… in none other than my home city
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The following is a guest post from Dr. Laura Dabney. Dr. Laura runs a Life Coaching practice for men, and over the last decade has helped hundreds of men level up their relationships, careers, and overall quality of life. To learn more about her, go here: https://lauradabney.com/ And now for the article… take it away
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I received an interesting, complicated question I’ll try to distill here for you… because it’s a very important topic. Basically, the question revolved around how you were supposed to maintain the frame with a woman while being vulnerable… and if it ever made sense to “drop frame.” (For those just joining us on this concept, check out
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Short email here, since we’ve got another one coming out later this afternoon. So got asked this fun question a few days ago from a former client: What is the fundamental issue men who are struggling with women all have in common? I’ll cut right to the chase… To be honest, I’m not sure there
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I got asked this question a bit ago surprisingly not from one of you dear gentlemen, but @sarahjeangosney (follow if you want to see what healthy female self-improvement looks like). Cutting to the chase… the truth is, I didn’t make my decision as most guys say you should. I didn’t do a long trial period
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Let’s cut to the chase on this one, shall we? If you want to rapidly gain more friends, and meet more women, you might benefit from a couple of things… but one is essential. Meeting more people. Which is why when a client (whose goal was just this) mentioned that he was invited to go
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It’s the day after Christmas, and after a long couple of days with my family… my wife and I are about to hop on a flight to visit hers. Christmas is a serious event in both our families. We always spend the week before with mine, the week after with hers, and trade the day
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Gonna make today’s email short and sweet… because it’s not anything we need to make too complicated. Guys talk a lot about how to hold frame in relationships, and they’ll mention all sorts of ‘tactical’ hacks. Agree and amplify. Dread game. Cocky funny. You’ve heard a lot of tricks and concepts, I’m sure. But really,
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As some of you stalkers undoubtably heard, I was out last Thursday with good friend Hutt, painting the town (Philadelphia) red. (More on our escapades coming later in your inbox tomorrow) Though I don’t live there anymore, Philly’s my old stomping ground — I’m from the area, went to college in the city, and after
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