A reader writes in: “Pat, I went through your masterclass in last few days and have a question. How does one improve their self-esteem or self-worth in an unconscious way? I’m consciously aware that I’m way more valuable than I believe myself to be, but I undersell myself a lot. I unconsciously do that.” — […]
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A lot of you guys know Nash from @DaysOfGame_com on Twitter. (If you don’t, he’s one of my most recommended follows, so get on that) Good guy. SMART guy. I met him in NYC a few months back for some lunch and wine… we talked for hours, and if we didn’t have appointments we could have spent
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PS Go here for my article on the 3 Pillars of Attraction.
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Considered not sending this out, as it’s the kind of email spam filters block… But I was sent a study the other day I thought might be useful to some of you. The topic? Dick size… and how to increase it naturally and easily. Even as I write that I laugh… that’s pretty much what
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Very often I’ve been asked what books have influenced my thinking around women. And I feel like people have been rather disappointed by my response. You see, I don’t read that much. At least not in a “formal” sense. Ok, I read a TON. But my material is diffuse — there’s no real organization to this.
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Got a question from a subscriber the other day, more or less asking the above. It’s a bit of a general question, and so is probably better answered in a blog post (maybe I will create one, one of these days…) But anyway, to spitball… The most important things you NEED to do after a
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Let’s cut to the chase:I see a lot of LARPing online from accounts about their prowess with women. These accounts — who generally have some super-unique actor, playboy, or suit avis — talk about all sorts of things that “elite” men (themselves included of course) do. Things like: – have threesomes each weekend– attract every
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It’s no secret: one of the main reasons guys reach out to me is my specialty in deep work. Unlike a lot of coaches in dating and relationships, I don’t just stick to tactics.I don’t simply show you what to do, but how to THINK. Because doing well with women on a fundamental level is
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A few technical issues (which are being resolved) aside, the verdict on the masterclass has been overwhelmingly positive. People who *I* look up to, with large twitter accounts and experience (who are now going to be affiliating the course), have been describing big mental shifts just from watching the first few videos… which was humbling even to
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A couple of days ago, I tweeted out the following: The little comment got some interesting feedback. People were curious: what exactly did I mean? Well, I will tell you my friends. You see… whether it’s when a guy reaches out to me, or is in the process of working with me… at some point
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