Last September I took a week off to hike 80 miles of the Appalachian Trail, from the start of the Delaware Water Gap in NJ to Greenwood Lake, NY. Not such a tough hike, really. Even amateurs manage 15 miles a day up and downhill — I would be averaging only 11-12 — and this […]
Many of you asked for me to expand on this tweet from the other day: But really, what else is there to say? This is one of those observations that gathers much of its power through its simplicity. Take a moment and consider how it applies to your own life. What are you not yet ready to
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In self-improvement circles, there’s a generally healthy competition among men to out-earn, out-learn, out-lift, and of course out-fuck each other. Which is fine. If you need to keep tangible metrics, all of these ones are understandable. Indeed, you would think making more, knowing more, lifting more, and fucking more are all signs of “winning.” Yet there are
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Tweeted this out the other day – it got a lot of traction and was asked to expand on it: Why did this tweet hit home? Methinks because it reconciled a dilemma a lot of guys face, and assume they need to tradeoff on: Their relationship with work and women. Now, I won’t deny that
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That’s right, we’ve got a sex email for you today. Want to reveal some stuff from a conversation I had with a friend the other weekend, as it’s a question I get very often from clients: “I can’t last very long, how can I change this?” Well, while there are a lot of psychological reasons
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As most of you know, I got into a little trouble recently. Won’t talk about the details, for reasons I’m sure you can appreciate. But this event’s gotten a lot of media attention, which has made me a bit “infamous” in some quarters… something interesting to witness both personally and professionally. When your name gets
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Got a question from the great Matias about something I tweeted last fall: There are two parts to the answer. But first, we need to make a distinction. Because there is a difference between GENERAL procrastination and SPECIFIC procrastination. General procrastination is an AVOIDANCE pattern. It’s an indication that there is a part of you who does
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Merry Christmas Eve my friends – just a short email for you today. As many of you know already, my wife had a baby last week… so took a bit of a hiatus on writing. We will be resuming on the 26th. In the meantime, if you’re interested in hearing the story of my business
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Something I’ve been thinking about after noticing some drama on the Twitter TL is how truly vindictive women can be when they don’t get their way. “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” is a famous saying for a reason. You need to be careful at the lengths a woman will go to get
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Those of you familiar with my work should be familiar at this point with my work on the three pillars of attraction. (I gave a great speech on it in 2019 at the 21 Convention – if you missed it, check it out) However, if you’ve been following me recently on twitter, you’d also see
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