WHY EVERY MAN SHOULD GO HUNTING The woods are lovely, dark, and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep. ~ Robert Frost, Stopping by the Woods on a Snowy Evening I climbed with my friend up a hill in the cold …
HOW TO BE A LEADER (TRUMP CASE STUDY) Every guy dreams about becoming a leader. It’s in our DNA. We love the thought of people following us, supporting us, admiring us. We love to imagine standing for something against a mighty, oppressive force and conquering it. We love the idea of being our own man, …
Like many other men, I have struggled with destructive habits. I have consumed on a regular basis excessive alcohol, disgusting pornography, mind-numbing television, and emotionally-triggering (and unenlightening) news. I have pursued immature, dramatic women, surrounded myself with negative, stagnant friends, and avoided any sort of movement that made me sweat. And I have suffered as a …
4 HARD LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE PICK UP COMMUNITY There was a time when I counted my days by the number of attractive girls who walked by me, who I let remain unspoken to. It was the number of girls I desired — not just sexually, but socially and romantically — that I couldn’t work up …
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THE SECRET TO CONFIDENCE I talk a lot about things you can do to get a girl. The right way to approach her… The best way to talk to her… The appropriate way to express your desire for her… And they’re all, obviously, very useful. They teach you what to do and give you the …
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DON’T FOCUS ON PROCESS? The other weekend I built a sandcastle. As some of you may know, building a sandcastle is one of my favorite things to do. It’s physical, meditative, and artistic, and for me, also filled with nostalgia. I grew up helping my dad and uncle build sandcastles and cathedrals, …
THE IMPACT OF SELF-SABOTAGING BELIEFS Let’s be honest with ourselves before we begin. Almost everybody wants something in their life a little bit different. This doesn’t mean that they’re unhappy with their lives, or that this missing thing is torturing them; stopping them from achieving their dreams. It’s just that humans in general are always …
WHY YOU NEED CONSISTENCY I’m writing this post under duress. I really don’t want to do it. Each line seems worse than the one before, and the whole thing feels forced. Why am I wasting my time (and yours) with this? One word: Consistency. Probably one of the most underrated words out there. If Step …
THE TRUTH ABOUT REJECTION This past weekend Kate and I were in San Diego, killing some time on the beach before our flight home, when we saw some high school kids playing volleyball. For those of you who don’t know, Kate and I love volleyball, and we had been itching to play for months. This …
STOP LYING TO YOURSELF People come to me with a lot of questions: “How can I get a girlfriend (or boyfriend)?” “How can I free myself from the 9-5?” “How can I get girls to sleep with me?” “How can I get people to enjoy talking to me?” “How can I make more money?” “How …
