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Give Into Your Anger

Some of you might remember at the end of The Return of the Jedi, Emperor Palpatine gives Luke Skywalker a little “encouragement” on how to beat the crap out of his right hand man, Luke’s father. Even if you haven’t watched the films, you probably have heard the expression (or some derivation of it) before: […]

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Homeless Man Mindset

It’s always amusing for me to watch the “storylines” some of these marketing guys use to get guys to jump onboard their products. Consistently, they pander to man’s most base instinct: laziness. Can’t really blame them. (Even if their “hacks” won’t reproduce results in 99.9% of similar guys) Chances are, they’ve found the “exception” —

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Follow Your Intuition

FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION Last weekend I went to see a cousin of mine. Hard to say exactly why. We hadn’t really talked that much, except through email. But it was a feeling — a feeling that had been nagging me since the start of the new year — that we needed to see each other.

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“Be A Real Man”

Perhaps you recall, a few weeks ago I wrote an email critiquing the modern phenomenon of safe spaces. Fairly benign, I thought. After all – you don’t hear too many adults anywhere particularly inspired by college students who need an emergency dose of play-dough in order to process an opposing view point. But, apparently it

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Stop Trying To Meet Women

As a dating coach, I am loathe to tell guys not to go out and meet girls. After all, most guys struggling with women are just LOOKING for rationalizations to stop themselves from putting themselves out there. But truth be told, some guys actually need to be told a little something counterintuitive…Chill. Stop practicing approaching women.Stop

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The Route To Low Confidence

Recently yours truly had an article of his rejected by an esteemed magazine. Now, no need to get our your torches and pitchforks out in my defense. They’re good people, and I’m OK. In fact — I was expecting it to happen — even though the content was great. You see, even though *I* like

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The Women You Deserve

THE WOMEN YOU DESERVE Much angst is made in male circles these days about the “modern woman.” You’ve heard about her. Entitled. Out of shape. Negative. Often psychologically unstable. For most guys, not their dream partner. So endemic and unpalatable is this “modern woman” that a new fantasy among men has arisen: the foreign girl.

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The Chicken Or The Egg

THE CHICKEN OR THE EGG On June 28th, 1914 Archduke Ferdinand and his wife Sophie were assassinated by a Serbian Nationalist, Gavrilo Princip, in Sarajevo. If you were to ask an average person with basic history knowledge about this event, 99% would tell you this is what “caused World War One.” Perhaps they are right.

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