The other night I was out with a post-gala crew. And a girl in the group was complaining. (go figure) Her boyfriend was an investment banker and was working long hours… to the point where it was her 30th birthday, and he wasn’t coming out. I understood his side of the situation, of course. They […]
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“Hi Pat. I hope you’re well. I was just reading the Mary Magdalen section in “The Way Forward” that reminded me of a question I asked Mr. Tomassi. I’d very much enjoy your answer to the same question. “Hi Rollo. I’ve been meaning to ask you about something that’s bothered me a bit about some
It happened to me almost incidentally. But one day I woke up and just had it. Of course, this wasn’t really an out-of-the-blue thing. It was a shift over a long progression of years. A changing of beliefs. A rewiring. I am of course talking about Frame. (Read: What Is Frame?) There were a couple
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One way I like to think I’m different from other dating coaches is I try to be honest about guys expectations going in. For instance, while some marketers will tell you all you need is to “follow my secret system to get women effortlessly”… I know that is complete garbage ad-copy designed to take your money
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This email has been requested for awhile, so as promised here it is. But I will WARN you, this is for people who want to understand personality, which is not fluff… this requires mental effort, so don’t read it if you’re looking for a quick easy read. As many of you know I’m an ENTP.
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Yesterday I told you I’d tell you a few more stories about alignment. So here goes. Let’s circle back to Warsaw, end of 2012. Back in this day my dating life was at peak power. And well overdue, if you ask me. I spent the first year of this “self-improvement” process in 2008, and the
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I’m writing this on a plane, traveling across Indian Ocean. By the time you guys get it, however, I’ll be at my final destination. Tasmania. I’ve always had a weird things for islands, particularly temperate or subarctic ones. The more remote the better. I always took this to be (one of many) weird things about
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I can tell you pretty directly what kind of people absolutely suck at having healthy relationships. It shouldn’t be surprising.In fact, it’s so boring that I feel stupid typing it. But, it bears mentioning… since 99% of the shit I see the monkeys throwing around the interwebs directly contradicts it. Everyone is so focused on
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The last email I sent out was a little nuts. I revealed some super nerdy, strange things about myself. The sort of things that aren’t (allegedly) good for sales. (A reminder: I spent 2 days trying to modify a WW2 strategy board game so it would be more historically accurate and “better.” Wait, why did
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It’s become apparent over the years that my style is quite different from most of the typical dating coaches. Despite the evolution of “the industry” away from negs, canned PUA routines, etc… people are still grounding themselves in the numbers game. More focus on strategy (physique, lifestyle, masculinity) vs tactics (peacocking, status-faking, game), but still
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