Put out a controversial poll on Twitter the other day, and got some great answers to it: First I’ve got to say, I’m very proud of my audience. Most guys commenting were very attuned to the fact that you CANNOT give to get sex, and that “covert contracts” are nice guy behavior. Some also pointed […]
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There are two primary philosophies on how to get the relationship you want with a woman. The first is to focus on developing desire. Become a G who every girl would want to be with: a man with the looks, lifestyle, and game. And then develop an abundance when it comes to women, so that
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Short list of behavioral traits guys say they want with women: allows man his freedom (no nagging or demands) submissive; surrenders emotionally and sexually Lives basically to make his life easier (cooks, cleans, etc) All sounds pretty good, right? You get an attractive girl who does all of this, and you’ve hit the jackpot. Which
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It seems these things go through cycles. 15-20 years ago, game was *the* way to meet women. Didn’t matter how hot or in what scene a girl was — you could get her if you understood attraction. Guys who mastered cold approach were the elite with women. Then it shifted to looks. Girls really didn’t
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Had a convo with a client the other day, who had a common yet often confusing problem on a date. All was going well with the girl. They had already kissed; indeed, this was date #2. Conversation was dynamic, and when he invited her back to his place for a drink on the roof, she
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As most of you know, I am a big proponent of social circle game. There are a lot of reasons for this. You end up meeting more “pre-vetted” women, as most of the girls that enter your universe are friends of friends. This improves quality; there is a greater likelihood of shared values. But even
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A reader responds to my last email on Why Brilliant Men Must Marry Smart Women: I’d love to see another one of these going over the concept of the feminine needing stability as it relates to intelligence. Often times smart men are unemployable and as they are going through a phase of building a new
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Threw out a fun tweet the other day that went somewhat viral: Glad a lot of you enjoyed the humor. But it did land a bit close to home, didn’t it? Let’s be frank: the manosphere doesn’t really care much about intelligence in women. Some of this is understandable, though misapplied. A lot of guys
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Well it seems as if the manosphere has come to a new conclusion. You don’t really “need” any special advice to succeed with women. Get in shape, get rich. And then just “be interesting” and “hold frame.” Sinple, really. Problem solved. Or is it? Look, I get where this kind of thinking comes from. If
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I tweeted out something very important the other day: Let me reiterate the above: DRAMA = NO COMFORT INDIFFERENCE = NO DESIRE DO NOT MIX THESE TWO UP. If a woman is ignoring what you say and doing whatever she wants regardless of how it affects you then YES you have lost desire. But if a woman
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