I was talking to a new client the other day. On the call, he told me something interesting: “Pat, good news since we last talked. I’ve been chatting to this beautiful girl who’s moving into the area. She seems really interested, we’ve been texting throughout the last few days. But I’m wondering — what should […]
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I’ve been trying to cut back on my social media usage. I find my mood *and* concentration are better when I lay off, even if I’m only looking when I’m not working. Which has led to the phone being removed from many places, such as the bathroom. At my house, I basically sit in silence.
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Yesterday, I had a bit of a predicament. My cat, scoundrel that he is, ate one of my wife’s hair bands. Not a good thing. Hair bands can get caught in a cat’s intestines. If they get bunched up enough, they can cause tears and even require surgery to remove. An awful prospect. We would
Yesterday I heard an interesting story. A colleague of mine has been hooking up with a girl for the past three weeks. Him and this fine damsel were sleeping together on the regular. Last night, however, after they had their regular “rendezvous,” he asked her if she wanted to stick around and watch a Woody
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So, as many of you know, my new book, Tackling Texting, was supposed to come out today.And, yet, it has not. To be honest, though it would be “classic Pat” to have something unfinished on my end delaying the opening, truthfully this time it was a little something more bland. Amazon apparently has an *up
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Today I jumped on a bus from NYC to south jersey. It was crowded, and there were a lot of standbys. It was (sadly) clear all of them were not going to get on. Bodies were fighting to get in. So, I was a bit surprised to see a girl on the bus had placed
Last night I was out with my buddy from Scotland for St. Patrick’s Day. Mostly, we were just catching up. We don’t see each other too often and aren’t looking to score any women (after all, we’re both taken) But it appears charm springs eternal whether you like it or not. Oddly enough, in this
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You know, it’s strange. My name is Patrick. I’m at least a third Irish, according to my DNA (And I certainly look it) But St. Patrick’s Day? Wasn’t too big of a fan. Especially, oddly enough, when it came to dating. Despite ALL of the things ostensibly stacked in my favor, St. Patrick’s Day never
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As many of you know, there’s a concept sweeping the nation right now. College kids, terrified by having their precious little views violated, have taken to demanding a “safe space” on campus. In other words, a room where no one who disagrees with them (or who represents someone disagreeable to them) can enter. To make
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As a dating coach, I am loathe to tell guys not to go out and meet girls. After all, most guys struggling with women are just LOOKING for rationalizations to stop themselves from putting themselves out there. But truth be told, some guys actually need to be told a little something counterintuitive…Chill. Stop practicing approaching women.Stop
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