Ever had a woman turn you down for sex? No, I’m not talking about a girl you’ve been trying to hook up with… though of course that happens from time to time. I’m talking about girls you’ve slept with before, and that you’ve been actively dating. Not the “conquests,” the one’s you’re committed to. It sucks, right? Here you […]
“I Don’t Have Time” Read More »
I remember a few months back I was running a bootcamp. We were practicing “daytime approaches,” on this occasion, in a grocery store. I wanted my client to go up to a girl and “open” her with specific compliment. I explained exactly how to do it, and, like a diligent student, he saw a cute blond,
I’ve Never Seen A Woman More Confused Read More »
Was talking to a client last about a girl he’s been seeing. He was telling me how they were going on dates, holding hands, kissing. He’d tell her stories, tease her. She’d laugh. All good, right? But, when it came time for sex, she had to stop… because the realization hit her that “I’m still
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It’s always amusing for me to watch the “storylines” some of these marketing guys use to get guys to jump onboard their products. Consistently, they pander to man’s most base instinct: laziness. Can’t really blame them. (Even if their “hacks” won’t reproduce results in 99.9% of similar guys) Chances are, they’ve found the “exception” —
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Today, I had the privilege of witnessing a fight between two “manosphere” Twitter personalities. One is fairly well established. In the 2nd tier elite of our corner, or something of the like. The other is theoretically at least an up-and-comer. Yet for no reason, the up-and-comer started throwing shade at this established guy everybody likes
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A colleague on Twitter the other day commented about how “aspiring PUAs” would throw shade at him if, for instance, he hooked up with a girl because she invited him back to her place — and little work on his part was required. He was somehow “fake” and “not really good at picking up women,” since women were picking
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If you guys are in my Dynamic Men group, you might have known I witnessed a (failed) daygame attempt today in Miami. (For the deets, and to get some basic daygame tips, join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/385638151813995) I poked fun at the guy a bit, because technique aside, he was dead in the water. You can’t dress below
The First Shall Be Last Read More »
Perhaps you recall, a few weeks ago I wrote an email critiquing the modern phenomenon of safe spaces. Fairly benign, I thought. After all – you don’t hear too many adults anywhere particularly inspired by college students who need an emergency dose of play-dough in order to process an opposing view point. But, apparently it
I was talking to a new client the other day. On the call, he told me something interesting: “Pat, good news since we last talked. I’ve been chatting to this beautiful girl who’s moving into the area. She seems really interested, we’ve been texting throughout the last few days. But I’m wondering — what should
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I’ve been trying to cut back on my social media usage. I find my mood *and* concentration are better when I lay off, even if I’m only looking when I’m not working. Which has led to the phone being removed from many places, such as the bathroom. At my house, I basically sit in silence.
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