Years ago, back in my aimless college years, I worked with a couple of professors on a “strategic threat assessment” for the US government. Basically, our job was to use our knowledge of geopolitics to look at areas the US was at risk internationally over the next 20 years. This involved the usual checks of […]
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You’ve probably heard me talk about Personality quite a bit by this point. Two terms I throw around a lot with it are “integrated” and “healthy.” But what do these terms mean? Are they just filler words? No, they’re not, but I am guilty for not explaining them. Integrated is a term that comes out depth
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One thing you get used to in the self-improvement circles is everybody opining on what you “have” to do. Pretty much every day I see comments like the following: “This is the schedule you should follow to make your day efficient.” “This is the workout you need to use if you want to get ripped.”
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When it comes to “having a feminine woman,” most conversation in our corner of the internet revolves around making sure you pick the right woman. I agree, just as a sculptor needs to choose his block of marble carefully, you must choose your woman with the same level of discernment. But also like a sculptor,
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One term that always confused me a bit was “emotional cheating.” Maybe confused isn’t the right word, but the whole thing seemed a bit weird. Is it when someone gets close to regular cheating but holds themselves back? Is it simply a lesser form of cheating? Or is it something else entirely? I’ve started to
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As many of you might remember, I’ve got a thing for DJ Khaled. The dude absolutely fascinates me. Got to be one of the dumbest celebrities yet one of the most authentic and in-tune with himself. Anyway, another riff on the guy. One of his popular (albeit not sensational) songs is “No New Friends.” Basically, the
About a year ago I wrote a two-part article on the difference between Dominance and Seduction. (Read: Part 1 & Part 2) It’s a topic that fascinates me to this day. The main question that still remains for me is how it plays into game. Let me take you down my line of inquiry… I consider both Dominance
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A couple days ago I wrote something on Twitter about “models of mental management.” I don’t know whether I made this ambiguous term up or borrowed it, but it’s basically a way of codifying how you get yourself to do things. The conventional approach, especially in our corner, is discipline. You don’t want to do something
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“A woman can tell if you’re assessing her or leering” Some guy, I believe @huntfored, said something along those lines the other day. (Great account to follow if you haven’t already – he’s basically the wise yet jaded, reformed hedonist. Dark, incredible insights into female nature.) It’s an important distinction. Girls LOVE being “assessed” —
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One thing that gets talked up a lot in more “mainstream” dating advice circles is communication. Got a problem? Express it. Be vulnerable. Be open. Of course, as we know, men need to be cautious when it comes to such advice. Vulnerability is best expressed from a position of strength, otherwise your masculinity will diminish in her eyes. (To
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