Yesterday on Twitter, Kathryn Hogan (@KathrynmHogan – great follow BTW) responded to my tweet with an interesting question. Me: “A woman can only be soft if her man is hard. Most modern men are not up to the challenge.” Her: “Do you think this is a goes both ways thing? That a man can’t be hard […]
Yesterday I mentioned a client had a kissing mishap with a girl. But what was more interesting was what transpired earlier. You see, my compadre found himself in a situation before with this girl, and didn’t know what whether she liked him or not. Truth be told, it can be tough to see such things.
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I was having a chat with a client the other day, and he brought up something funny. So there’s a girl he’s interested in, and she’s interested in him as well. (though he didn’t see these signs before we worked together, a benefit of yours truly) Even so, he fumbled their next hang out… because
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In passing, yesterday we mentioned “gamer chicks” and how guys need to dominate that domain to get girls, seeing how few of them there are. But there’s another aspect to this I want to explore, so you can become more aware. Specifically, that of “thot market” — and where it allocates thots. Some of this
We talked about nerds yesterday, and we’re going to talk some more about them today. I’ll cut to the chase: Some nerds have an advantage with seduction over others. I just need to be honest. The nerds that do best with women are ones that are curious about all topics under the sun. Generalists just
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Yesterday I made mention of facts and inferences being very valuable in conversing and attracting women. (aka, being a nerd can get you laid) Enticing, I’m sure, for many of my (inevitably nerdy) readership. After all — who else would follow a guy who talks about deep psychology and social dynamics? But the fact is
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I’m heading to France in a couple weeks, and I’ve been brushing up on my high-school French accordingly. I’ve always liked French — it’s sing-song language that’s relatively easy to learn, especially to speak. (though my accent sucks — a product of having a very interrupted French program growing up) Anyway, I realized something while
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As the world has become more digital, it’s become more impersonal. It’s not uncommon to “meet” girls online, and most information today is exchanged via text or symbol (emojis, gifs). Why it’s no surprise most people (like yours truly) tend to suggest learning how to text better. (BTW, if you want an practical yet philosophical,
It’s been raining all week in NYC, and the opportunities for adventure have been a bit limited. So I did what any reasonable person who has recovery on the mind and nothing to do: head to the spa. I don’t know if you’ve been — a lot of guys have sadly gotten caught up in
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Yesterday we mentioned how both Biological and Psychological attraction have a Persona element to them. I’m going to explain why this makes sense… and why it matters. To take a step back: You can look at Status/Wealth/Looks (Preselection, Biological) and Type/Values/Growth (Personality, Psychological) as being relatively concrete things. Persona, on the other hand, is more
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