I heard a story the other night that, like many otherwise innocuous tales, seemed mild on the surface but caused me some concern. It was about an older friend’s son. He’s about my age. I haven’t met him. And don’t know anything about him personally, except that which I was told. But he’s married, and […]
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One reason I caution anyone to think in black and white about women is personality type. As we have said time and time again: all women are hypergamous, but all women do not manifest their hypergamy the same way. So while your average ESFJ female might lose interest if you chased and persisted through obstacles, your
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So as should be common knowledge if you’re on this list by now, masculinity and femininity are downstream of universal “sex impulses,” and determine the sexual polarity in a relationship. And it should also be clear that there are different personalities, and some get along better than others (both individually, and structurally). But there is
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“Hi Pat. I hope you’re well. I was just reading the Mary Magdalen section in “The Way Forward” that reminded me of a question I asked Mr. Tomassi. I’d very much enjoy your answer to the same question. “Hi Rollo. I’ve been meaning to ask you about something that’s bothered me a bit about some
Wanted to piggie back of yesterday’s email while it’s still on people’s minds, and talk about ways women “cheat loyally.” It’s something people don’t talk too much about — for understandable reasons. It’s still cheating, even if the reasons for it are complex. But understanding how some of this stuff works on the “deep end”
Let it be known that despite my attacks against Red Pill dogmatism, I’m no dogmatic myself. Even women I’d love to classify as “high quality” do devious things, especially in an emotional state. For instance, a story that happened years ago with a (now-ex) friend of mine (“J”) and his girlfriend (“H”). It begins at
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I put out a poll this morning about a very delicate situation. I’ll give you some details in a bit… but the gist is, a friend’s wife cheating on him. (READ: How I Know You’re A Cheater) I am 100% certain of this. There isn’t any wiggle room for other options. But, it’s a very
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I remember as a teenager, meandering through the Cherry Hill Mall (shout out to South Jersey!), always feeling strange when walking by Victoria’s Secret. The place has a “forbidden” element to it. It was for women. Given the models and lingerie everywhere, you were a “pervert” if — as a man — you went in
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As many of you know, after an embarassing hiatus, I’ve returned to the gym — under the tutelage of the great Mike Vacanti (Mike’s the one who got Gary Vaynerchuck into shape) Things have been going pretty well. Can’t tell if he’s buttering me up or not but my progress has been allegedly pretty great.
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Friday night I put out in passing on Twitter: “Joke with your kids if you want them to develop their instincts.” The thought crossed my mind as I had finally found a parking space in a cozy little alley, deep in old italian South Philly. This neighborhood is “gentrifying,” but still has a lot of the
