So yesterday we talked about how much a girl’s “number” really matters for a relationship. And we noted male distaste for a woman who’s been with a bunch of other men. But there’s an exception to this, that most men at least have a hard time resisting. When a girl is a “slut”… but still […]
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So we got into some interesting conversation yesterday on Le Tweetér about a woman’s sexual history and her “quality.” First off, let’s get some clarification. I’m no rube and I’ve seen the data on n-count and how it affects the survivability of a relationship. “Virgin relationships” have the highest likelihood of working out… followed by
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Gonna keep this one short and sweet since we don’t need no frills around it. Maybe some of you saw my tweet from the other day: “If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make a happy woman your life.” Well, that right there is the #1 Trait to look for
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So I’m going to air a theory with ya’ll today that I’ve been musing on for awhile… and undermines an enormous amount of current thinking (whichever way you look in the dating world) You hear a lot on the internetz about “what women want” from men. Some claim it’s strength. (This is true, especially physically… but
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The other day I spent some time exploring a salt mine (oldest still-operating mine in Europe, see if you can find it) with a friend of mine. He’s married to a girl he’s been more or less with exclusively his whole life. (If I recall correctly, either him or her “broke up” with the other
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Got a great question from my guy @MimeticValue on Twitter today (why are you not following him?), dealing with a very interesting phenomenon in dating: “@Pat_Stedman I noticed that people project a role onto you from their first impressions, and it’s very hard to change this. If she likes you for that role, she becomes
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Yesterday we tackled the implications of your “macro” approach towards a girl, and how seducers may create an impression that turns a girl on short-term, but is counterproductive after a few months.Today we’re focusing on the details, which is probably what @MimeticValue was looking for when he asked (I like to use questions to extrapolate
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A reader writes in about an interesting dilemma: Hey pat, would love to hear your opinion on this situation I’m in. I’m having somewhat of a hard time. I’m seeing 2 different women and not sure which one I should get serious with. One of them seems crazy about me, she seems very open to
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This is the last post in our informal series on bar game. And I saved you the best for last. Recall from the last email we discussed when to get number at a bar if you want a response. But if you’re planning to camp out at a bar, there’s a variation of this.And it’s
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So yesterday I talked about an “exception” to the usual rule about closing girls you meet out at night. We’re going to get to that in a minute… but first I want to clarify something. By “closing” girls I don’t mean getting aggressive or desperate for a specific outcome. Some girls who are only interested
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