Had a conversation with a client the other day that I’ve had with more clients than I can recall at this point. He had an “assignment” to go talk to girls. And, surprise surprise, he didn’t do it. The reason? “I didn’t want to bother them” Whether it was a girl shopping in the grocery […]
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I was recently linked me to this guy’s dating profile and asked to write an email about his attempt to find a wife: To a certain extent I’m actually at a loss about what to say. I don’t have an issue with matchmaking — which you might say is the same as what this guy is requesting.
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Put out a thread the other day on this: It’s funny, isn’t it? Men know they need to initiate to get the girl. They know they are the ones that need to escalate to make things sexual. But once that threshold is met, and sex becomes regular and easy, they begin to assume this is
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A reader writes in: Let’s say the situation is this: a man and a woman who were in a 2-3 years LTR break up (let’s say the decision came from the man, but it doesn’t change the question if it were the other way around), and then spent 1 or 2 months single, with basically
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Probably one of the biggest refrains in the manosphere is that women are attracted to masculinity, and are looking for masculine guys. Obviously, this is true. But what is also true, yet verboten to discuss, is that women can also be attracted to effeminate guys. Indeed, they are often seduced by them. The struggling artist.
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A reader writes in: So I went on this date with a girl about 2 weeks ago (I’m 28 and she is 23). Our parents are friends and I’ve known her a long time. She is getting out of a short term relationship (like 4 months)… I take her out for drinks and appetizers at
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Beyond hilarious comment to a quasi pick-up video that made the rounds: Obviously the guy spewing this retardation doesn’t really believe what he is saying. He only said it to come across as alpha (why he has such high standards). Eva Green in her prime was probably “a 7 at best” — because he knows
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The 5 Types of Guys I Work With Unsurprisingly for a dating and relationship coach, I’m frequently asked “what sort of stuff do you work on with clients?” To my embarrassment, I am usually pretty poor at answering this question. In most professions these days, you are essentially a specialist. And this is no different
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A thread went viral on twitter the other day: It’s an amusing story, to be fair. But honestly, it’s THIS section that I want to focus on: “Is this worse than the man whose first words to me were ‘So… you’re, like, MISLEADINGLY photogenic’? I only slept with one of them, place your bets” —
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Thought-Provoking tweet from Transformed Housewife the other day, which I had the following response to: But I wanted to elaborate a bit more on this. Because I don’t want to throw the baby out with the bathwater here. There is absolutely NO question that men value women more who delay sex. If a man can
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