So last night I was at a media mixer, talking about the state of dating, relationships, all that good stuff. One of the other attendees was a woman who turned out to be a divorce lawyer. And boy did she have some interesting stories to tell. Now, I know a lot of you have this […]
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Yesterday I blocked and removed a long time subscriber. It was a pointless bit of drama, but I’m going to share it… not only because it may prevent a similar fate for some of you, but because it’s an important lesson you need to internalize as a man. As many of you know, my good
One of the big questions that circulates the “manosphere” is how you can judge whether or not a woman is someone you should commit to. There’s quite a bit of criteria people throw around. A few examples: – Down for sex anytime– Feminine– Takes care of herself physically– Does sweet stuff for you There’s more
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GaryPUA put out the following interesting, and very accurate, observation the other day: The tweet speaks for itself, and I don’t need to much explain it. But I do want to elaborate so you can glean something a bit deeper out of it. When a girl is laughing at everything you say, she DOES want
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As I was sitting in the cafe, considering writing something completely different, a memory entered my head of a “botched” sales call I had nearly a year ago. This was an interesting time for me — the biz was on the ascendence, but the fruits of this momentum were just shy from coming in. And
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Yesterday the great daygamer Nash had an interesting thread on the different types of “mindsets” guys have when they daygame… and their commensurate results. He noted that guys who feel like they NEED to approach do poorly, guys who WANT to see some results… but guys who approach “out of choice” do the best. He’s
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One of the most popular books in this corner is the vintage tome, The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. The book is indeed a must-read. I recommend it to all of you.It’s a very deep book. I reread it every two years, and every time I draw more insight out of it.
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One of the key things you NEED to understand if you’re ever going to succeed with women is that attention is everything to them. It’s what they chase. To the extent they care about wealth, it’s because money grants them more attention. Diamonds — attention. Fashion — attention. Attention gets to the heart of the female identity
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So perhaps some of you saw, I was “bodyshamed” yesterday by the usual suspects on twitter for a picture I had with Anthony. Comments I received? “Soy tits” “Bad posture” “Baby arms” Now, never mind that these guys worship a dork who looks like a middle aged lesbian. Conventional wisdom would suggest I should just ignore
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Quick little story I wanted to share with you guys. As many of you know, there’s been a few ripples of problems in the UK with cold approaching. Two court cases are ongoing right now, involving guys who made women uncomfortable during their approach. (For what it’s worth, while the one involving a young anxious
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