Was talking to a soon-to-be new client last night about a situation he’s been experiencing with a recent ex. And something came up that I wanted to make note of. A little backstory: Our friend’s relationship has taken a very classic, tragic arc. They got together a year ago, and had the classic “honeymoon” period. […]
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A reader writes in, with a particularly juicy dilemma: Hey man, so Im in a pickleI don’t have trouble getting with girls anymore. However I now have trouble handling them. So I moved to Spain and have just wanted to explore (places and women) and definitely not settle down. I started hooking up with this high
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A reader writes in (abridged): Hey pat a potential email for the brothers learning. This recently came up in a whats app group with friends of mine talking about game the first time you get a date/first outing. One of the dudes absolutely shat the bed with this date subtly imo. He told us everything that
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A couple of days ago, I got into a little tiff with one of the so-called “zoomers” on Twitter. The zoomers, aka Gen-Z, are an interesting group. Some of them are impressive beyond words – optimistic, brave, and transgressive in spite of all the cultural rot and societal poisoning thrown their way. Others, however, are
Super short and straight to the point email for you today. Aside from our calls, one of the perks of working with me is the opportunity to text me or share in the private client-only group one’s latest updates with women. I observe some interesting interactions as a result. Some of these are serious. Big
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I put it out on the interwebs the other day a little drama that occurred in my broader social circle: Now, before I dive into this, I must defend myself. Someone asked why I didn’t just say off the bat I wasn’t interested. 2 reasons: First, I’m not sure what my troll’s social world is
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A couple of days ago, I tweeted out the following: The little comment got some interesting feedback. People were curious: what exactly did I mean? Well, I will tell you my friends. You see… whether it’s when a guy reaches out to me, or is in the process of working with me… at some point
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As you know, I love my little eavesdrops in this cafe. Tonight’s flavor was a conversation between two young, 22 year old aspiring actresses — one Romanian, one American. This chat was a charming one to listen to. Like most artistic girls, these ladies had a natural beauty and femininity to them. And the girls
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The other day I was hanging out at my usual cafe, concocting the prized content I know you gentlemen love, when I was presented with a brief but entertaining distraction. A couple came in, sat down next to me at the long table, and proceeded to get into a vicious fight. Now, make sure you
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The other week, something that doesn’t usually happen occurred that was a bit disappointing. A client who had signed up to work with me backed out on his word, and bailed. Of course, this wasn’t much of a surprise. I could see this happening in real time. The lack of follow-through in what we agreed
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