Was speaking to a client today and an interesting topic came up. One I have not thought to discuss much, despite its importance. The background: When my client and I started working together, he wasn’t meeting too many new women, and had been consistently settling for “meh” looking girls who went after him that didn’t […]
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It’s common knowledge most women love the finer things in life. Women are attracted to rich men, women care disproportionately about fashion, and of course, most consumers are women. And so there has always been this tension in the male provider-paradigm that a woman wants to spend things a man earns, and doesn’t think so much
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Full disclosure before this gossip column analysis: I could give two SHITS about the royal family. Prince Andrew is a confirmed pedophile, and he’s just the surface of the evil shit that goes on behind their “glamorous” lifestyle. But nevertheless it is very interesting seeing how things have unfolded with Prince Harry. Of course, it wasn’t hard
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It’s no secret: one of the main reasons guys reach out to me is my specialty in deep work. Unlike a lot of coaches in dating and relationships, I don’t just stick to tactics.I don’t simply show you what to do, but how to THINK. Because doing well with women on a fundamental level is
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A few technical issues (which are being resolved) aside, the verdict on the masterclass has been overwhelmingly positive. People who *I* look up to, with large twitter accounts and experience (who are now going to be affiliating the course), have been describing big mental shifts just from watching the first few videos… which was humbling even to
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A reader writes in: Its a first for me usually id manuver well but I really am kinda stumped here. long story short remember I said I had a LTR and I thought it would work and end in successful marriage? Well I think I met my potential wife lol….(makes no sense different woman) morals
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A little story from a client the other day: He’s been dating this girl for a few months now. She’s attractive, sex is great… but she’s been starting to wear on him. Because she’s a very, very anxious and needy girl. They “have to” talk every night, often quite late. She’ll have occasional “meltdowns” where
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Let’s cut to the chase: NYE is one of the “big three” each year when it comes to meeting women (along with Halloween and Valentines Day). Yes, the holiday is overdone. I know a lot of you probably have burnout. But the chances of a girl being open for connection tonight is EXTREMELY strong. And
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No need to beat around the bush with this one. You’ve heard the stats… and if you’re short, likely experienced it in real-life. Women care about height.If you don’t have it, suffice to say dating is a bit more difficult. And yet not as difficult as people imagine. Yes, there’s no question *some* women are
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A reader writes in about a situation with his girlfriend (he is not a native speaker so feel free to scroll past for TL;DR below): “Pat, I really appreciate your thought and your work and I would live an advice from you. I am in a LTR for almost two years, I started it as
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