A reader the other day asked a very important question: Do you have thoughts on what I can do to improve relationship with my parents? I have always had a strained relationship with them and recently moved out to begin to stay with my friend (I’m never pulling my weight nor living up to potential). […]
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Watched a movie — Midsommar — the other night that was very interesting. (Spoiler alerts for the first ~30 minutes of the film ahead) For our purposes, however, I’m going to focus on the central relationship dynamic in the film: Christian and Dani. Christian and Dani’s relationship is, in a word, dysfunctional. And unfortunately represents
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat Due to a health issue I’ve been dealing with I’ve not been able to have sex with my girlfriend for the last 4 months. Other sorts of sexual play are not her thing and haven’t gone well. This has been amplified by having moved in together over the COVID
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I’ve received a couple of messages at this point to address the recent “excitement” around Jada and Will Smith. For those who don’t know (I didn’t either), they recently did an interview of sorts where they discussed their marital problems — specifically Jada’s affair with another man. As you might expect, the red pill guys
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Short and sweet content for you today. In yesterday’s email we talked about the problems smart guys have with women. The content revolved mostly around behavior and mindset. However, there is another more “macro” piece to the puzzle that applies to many in the high-IQ category. Their life is their work… and they don’t do
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It shouldn’t come as a surprise given my material… but pretty much all of my clients have been intelligent guys. Some simply above average, others “galaxy-brain” tier (150+ IQ) And yet, it’s somewhat strange that such men — so astute otherwise — would need help with women. On paper you’d think they’d have an EASIER
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We talk a lot about things you can do to improve yourself with women. Getting in shape. Becoming a social kingpin. Learning game and seduction. And of course, getting your beliefs sorted so you have unshakable confidence. (Get my masterclass if you want to level up on these) But there are unfortunately some things we
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A reader writes in: “Pat, I went through your masterclass in last few days and have a question. How does one improve their self-esteem or self-worth in an unconscious way? I’m consciously aware that I’m way more valuable than I believe myself to be, but I undersell myself a lot. I unconsciously do that.” —
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Had a request the other day to touch on a phenomenon noted in my last COVID/CABAL periscope (these are somewhat political and very esoteric / conspiratorial, so ignore these if that’s not your thing). No doubt there are parallels — indeed, you can’t simply limit it to the right, it connects to (almost) the entire political establishment.
The other day on my dating/relationship periscope (check out these weekly wine Q&As if you haven’t) I got a little “deep” on one of my questions. The low down: A guy was considering breaking things off with a girl he’d been dating for about 6 months, in part because he felt he wasn’t ready, and could “upgrade.”
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