A reader writes in: Hi Pat, how are you man ? Sorry bothering you but I have a question for you for the next email or dating periscope. I am only asking you this because I am so bothered with this and I dont have anyone to ask for advice other than you. So I thank […]
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Got trolled a little today after I made the following tweet: The guy deleted, but the gist was pretty simple: “you have more important things to do than her, pay attention to her only when she behaves” For the record, I am not necessarily opposed to the above. There is truth to this, and its applicability
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Was talking to a client the other day about some big changes going on in his life. In short: things are going well. After many years of degeneracy and dating some insanely toxic women, he’s turning his life around. He’s gotten more involved with his faith, and is now on track to marry a beautiful,
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Bit of a weird email for you today.But I wanted to talk about something that’s been occurring more and more in my practice. Something that’s very strange to discuss for many, and indeed may not appeal to most. And yet, has proven very useful to those open enough towards it. Those of you who have
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Had an interesting conversation with a client the other day. A conversation I think might be very valuable for you gentlemen to “eavesdrop” on so to speak. The background: One of my clients is a very wealthy and successful guy. In incredible shape. And extremely fluent in “game.” He’s into dom-sub dynamics, and unlike many is able
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A reader writes in: I recently just got into my first sort of “relationship.” I’m 23 and I’ve had a lot of emotional issues in my life bc of my parents divorce and my terrible relationship with my mother. I’ve been talking with her for a little over a month, and we have a great time
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One of the interesting things about this business is how people’s emotions sabotage them. For instance, had a guy recently reach out for coaching. He just got out of a serious relationship — a girl who in many ways felt like “the one.” We agreed to do the “basic coaching” package together to do a
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A reader writes in: hi pat, I have a hypothetical question for you. well its not hypothetical its about me personally, nothing to do with dating more with character building. Im having a really hard time being happy/finding happiness, its from within yes, i believe but i make others so happy and they love being
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A reader writes in: So basically I got married 2 years back. My wife is from a wealthy family. Her mom and dad got divorced after our marriage. And she started dating her personal trainer after that. I wasn’t really happy about that because that guy was even younger than me. It felt like he’s
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Something occurred the other day with a client, which in fact occurs quite commonly. They have some situation with a girl. Things aren’t good, there are all sorts of problems… (Or maybe things SEEM good, but there are all sorts of “subtle tells” going on under the surface that raise red flags.) Very often it
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