A about a month ago, one of the big daygamers on Twitter, @broodingsea wrote about the end of a fling he had with a girl.I recommend you read the post… it’s very heartfelt and genuine, and most importantly gives you a taste of REALITY when it comes to dating. You see a lot of guys […]
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Listen to a lot of mainstream or new age relationship advice, and they will tell you that the secret to a healthy relationship is to communicate. And truth be told, they’re right. Some level of “game playing” may have a role early on in a romantic dalliance — you don’t want to come on too strong after
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Had a question crop up by @jaguarness the other day I wanted to get to, as it’s one many guys struggle with: My answer? Well, obviously it is a fine line, and getting it right is mostly a calibration issue. Guys who aren’t used to being a little cocky will likely overdo it at first
A reader writes in: Here’s my question… going to do my best to give you ‘context’ as briefly as possible. About two years ago I had a great date with someone I felt I had a connection with. We hooked up, and she pursued after our date by texting me a couple of days in a
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The other day the great Komander Xander commented on the following tweet: Which was a great opportunity for me, as I realized this new fad of modern women claiming to be “sapiosexual” is something I’ve never addressed. So what’s the story with it? Is it real or not? As usual, there’s some nuance to this. Sapiosexuality means
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As you all know, I’m a very curious person. In an effort to really understand (and thus serve) men in their relationships with women and themselves, I’ve perused many different communities. One of which are the “spirituality” or “new age” ones. Now, not going to rag on these people too much. They are very sweet
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Something I’ve been thinking about after noticing some drama on the Twitter TL is how truly vindictive women can be when they don’t get their way. “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” is a famous saying for a reason. You need to be careful at the lengths a woman will go to get
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A reader writes in: Hi Pat, Personal development puts me in a dilemma. I value connection. I want to be in a relationship and I want hot sex. But I am so often let down by most of my peers in their 20s that I interact with, including the girls in this age range whom I’m
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A reader writes in: ‘Hello Pat, I trust this message meets you well. I have an issue about dating to relate to you. I hope you find time amid your busy schedule to provide clarity. I met a girl I am attracted to, and we started speaking. In my observation, I would say she’s a
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A reader writes in: I’m in an interesting predicament here. I’m 22 but very psychologically developed and integrated for my age. Most of my friends are older than me and in different stages of life. Some are even in their 40s and 50s, including one pretty intelligent guy in his 50s who strangely, I’ve been
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