Tweeted this out the other day – it got a lot of traction and was asked to expand on it: Why did this tweet hit home? Methinks because it reconciled a dilemma a lot of guys face, and assume they need to tradeoff on: Their relationship with work and women. Now, I won’t deny that […]
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Tweeted out something very banal the other day, yet unsurprisingly I suppose it hit a nerve: Because I received a slew of responses from the usual anon accounts with some old statue or painting as their avi — or maybe if you’re lucky a set of abs — emphasizing the usual “women are never too exhausted
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Received a question the other day re: one of my tweets: A lot of the nitty-gritty of this confusion comes down to definitions. So let’s attack this term “fantasy.” What does it really mean? I do not think it is useful to associate it with masculine and feminine ideals. Ideals are behaviors to strive for.
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That’s right, we’ve got a sex email for you today. Want to reveal some stuff from a conversation I had with a friend the other weekend, as it’s a question I get very often from clients: “I can’t last very long, how can I change this?” Well, while there are a lot of psychological reasons
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Been on a classic movie bender as of late. And I found myself all the way back in the 50s, comparing the two iconic actresses of that era… Audrey Hepburn and Marilyn Monroe. Very different archetypes of women… which we will be exploring shortly. What’s interesting is that Marilyn has been promoted more in the
The brilliant Taylor Burrowes had an interesting suggestion for young men last night: I love the rebellion against conventional dating wisdom, which is to grab dinner, drinks, or coffee with a girl early on. “Active” dates (aka during the day and involve you moving around) in contrast don’t usually get much love. But should they?In my humble opinion,
As most of you know, I got into a little trouble recently. Won’t talk about the details, for reasons I’m sure you can appreciate. But this event’s gotten a lot of media attention, which has made me a bit “infamous” in some quarters… something interesting to witness both personally and professionally. When your name gets
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Hope you enjoyed yesterday’s breakdown of the men in Sixteen Candles. But there was another element I wanted to mention from the film… Because while it’s fun and useful to talk about archetypes, the reality is that movies are a snapshot in time. They don’t capture an individual’s growth, or the evolution of a relationship. They take a moment,
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So last week in NYC, I decide to go back in time and watch some old films. One of which is the classic, Sixteen Candles. Now, I know this is embarrassing… but this was actually the first time I’d seen the film. Interestingly, the first “high school drama” I ever saw was the parody, “Not Another
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Got a question from the great Matias about something I tweeted last fall: There are two parts to the answer. But first, we need to make a distinction. Because there is a difference between GENERAL procrastination and SPECIFIC procrastination. General procrastination is an AVOIDANCE pattern. It’s an indication that there is a part of you who does
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