First I want to start this email with a bit of gratitude. Even though things have gotten more absurd and toxic these past few years as the manosphere has become more mainstreamed, I STILL believe this community is fundamentally a positive place. It speaks to the dark realities of female behavior, and gives a voice […]
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I am getting WAY too many guys recently lamenting their average-sized equipment. So I’m going to break down the reality of being well-endowed when it comes to dating MOST women. First, let’s use some SCIENTIFIC definitions based on numerous studies of penis size. Micro is less than 3 inches. Small is 3-4. Below average 4-5.
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I’m writing my book at the moment and don’t have much time for emails, but this topic has been coming up a lot with clients… so I’m going to cut right to the chase. As I wrote about long ago, money does NOT generally create desire for women. It creates comfort. Gorgeous women bang dudes
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Some of my most popular emails have basically been analyzing gossip. Whether it’s celebrity news or just something I saw on Twitter, it’s a ton of fun to analyze a situation and draw conclusions based on rules of human nature. The thing is, gossip is normally a very low-vibration pursuit. So why do I do
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When I was a little kid, one of my favorite games was playing with toy guns outside. Maybe I’d be in WW2, or maybe on some alien planet. But my best friend and I would turn my quarter acre backyard into a vast imaginary landscape, replete with machine gun nests, enemy bases, and sniper dugouts.
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My first job ever was at the Jersey Shore, inside a 99 cent store warehouse. While the front of the store was fairly generic — pretty young girls, either local teens or eastern europeans on work visas — the back was filled with less presentable characters. But by choosing to work in the engine room of
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Had an interesting conversation with a client the other day that brought up a subject I’ve rarely discussed. How much does a woman’s “first” (guy she lost her virginity to) leave an impression on her psyche? Is he that much harder for her to get over? Generally, this question emerges with a degree of concern.
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One of the biggest difficulties guys have in dating isn’t understanding ideas around attraction conceptually. It’s calibrating them effectively in practice. Which is why I wanted to highlight two tweets from the great Nash I saw on Twitter recently: These are masterful examples of how to handle two of the biggest “disrespectful” behaviors guys encounter
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Recently had a tweet go viral about a girl getting some street food: It’s funny what gets attention and what doesn’t. This was a throwaway comment, but apparently the last thing you want to do today is come between a western woman and her psychiatric medication. YetI stand by what I said about more and
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Traditionalists are generally against moving in with a woman until you’re married. This is one of those things that I used to think was silly, over-conservatism, but as I’ve gotten older, I can see a lot of truth to it. Because something very dangerous happens when you move in with a woman. I’m not talking
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