Convo with a client the other day brought up something I’ve neglected to discuss on this list. Something I’ve been guilty of… as well as countless guys. You’re dating a girl. You like her, but either you or her are leaving the area soon, so by default you aren’t taking it too seriously. It is …
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In my book, Tackling Texting (an absolute must read for any guy trying to improve his text / online messaging game), one of the tactics I break down in detail is a) when and b) how to get the infamous “number close” from a girl you just met. “Number closes” were the first of the “Big 3” …
I was speaking to a client the other day, and he asked me to clarify something I had mentioned earlier about “how to connect with women.” He, like so many clients, was hitting a wall after some early progress. He knew how to banter with women, and get them out on dates. But the dates …
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This past weekend I had the privilege of overhearing a simultaneously amusing yet tragic conversation. At a restaurant for breakfast with my wife, there was a table next to us with a mother and her son. The mother was middle aged and dumpy; the son was in his late teens or early 20s, and clearly …
Much ado is made about female behavior these days; specifically how so many women are promiscuous. But what isn’t really talked about is why this happens. Obviously culture plays a role. Women are encouraged to “be free” and “not worry about being tied down” by the entertainment industry. And the historical behavior-police of young women — their …
Viral video about a girl “getting harassed” at the gym made the rounds recently: First thing I want to say is… as annoying as this girl is, don’t take it too seriously. This girl is not actually traumatized. Her crying and response is exaggerated. You can tell when she is speaking that she is insincere …
Had a conversation with a client the other day that I’ve had with more clients than I can recall at this point. He had an “assignment” to go talk to girls. And, surprise surprise, he didn’t do it. The reason? “I didn’t want to bother them” Whether it was a girl shopping in the grocery …
I was recently linked me to this guy’s dating profile and asked to write an email about his attempt to find a wife: To a certain extent I’m actually at a loss about what to say. I don’t have an issue with matchmaking — which you might say is the same as what this guy is requesting. …
Put out a thread the other day on this: It’s funny, isn’t it? Men know they need to initiate to get the girl. They know they are the ones that need to escalate to make things sexual. But once that threshold is met, and sex becomes regular and easy, they begin to assume this is …
A reader writes in: Let’s say the situation is this: a man and a woman who were in a 2-3 years LTR break up (let’s say the decision came from the man, but it doesn’t change the question if it were the other way around), and then spent 1 or 2 months single, with basically …
