Something I talk about quite frequently on here is the concept of integration. In case you are unfamiliar, it’s a psychological term, that derives from Carl Jung’s work. Integration is the process of bringing forth the unconscious into the conscious. This can be aspects of the shadow being brought to light. Or it can be […]
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Had a comment in response to my last email, which was interesting. First things first, of course I will agree: politics isn’t sexy. It has not and never will be good policy to attract a woman by talking about current events or complaining about this or that politician or policy. Politics is about dominance hierarchies
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Mike Cernovich had a provocative tweet the other day: It’s something I’ve touched upon, albeit not quite as directly as this. Although there’s no question COVID — and whether you live in fear of it or not — has substantially polarized the dating market. And yet, it’s not really just about COVID is it. People
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A little digression from our usual dating and relationship talk today, at least on the surface. Instead wanted to discuss a little drama going on in the manosphere. As many of you have undoubtably seen, the great Andrew Tate and Coltybrah have had a little bit of a spat. Coltybrah ran his mouth — as usual — and challenged
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Got tagged in a man’s romantic dilemma on Twitter… a scenario which is not so uncommon: My thoughts? One thing that is extremely common — yet far more lame than most men realize — is the male inclination towards “stubbornness.” It’s a style of masculinity particularly found in hard populations that have sustained a lot
I’m often asked about “girl game” and whether it is something you should be worried about in a woman. My stock reply is that there is nothing wrong with game — indeed, us men enjoy “girl game,” and we fall more for girls who have it. The issue isn’t the game itself, but what a girl’s intention
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FW Playboy put out an interesting tweet today in response to a question: I don’t have much of a disagreement with the fundamental observation. Women on vacation are far more likely to hook up — anyone disputing this is naive and hasn’t travelled enough. However, WHY they do this is a different question. Women are unconscious creatures,
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Short and to the point email for you today. But I want to bring something to your attention, so you can understand “the stakes” so to speak. You may not be where you want to be. But so long as you are focused on moving forward, and you are committed to “overcoming,” you will get there.
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Something occurred with a client recently I’ve seen happen countless times… and was worth expounding upon for you all. I’m sure you’ve heard it before. Sex in a relationship has dried up… You make your feelings of frustration known. And the girl claims the reason is that “she doesn’t feel like you are fully committed
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Don’t need to tell you that if there is any emotion that is shamed and suppressed these days, it’s anger. Doesn’t matter whether it’s coming from mainstream propaganda, or your local new age spirituality group. Anger is an emotion of destruction. It’s entitled. And fundamentally, it’s dangerous. Men in particular who express anger are toxic, and a
